Which place u prefer to live....?

@siliguri (4225)
India
March 31, 2010 3:32am CST
Hello..friends..can u say me..what i do.. Which place i prefer to live...the birthplace of my father(native place)...or the place where i have been grown..up. Actually we have a house in my native place..and my father say's now we have to shift there...but i didn't like that place..It almost happen 18 years to live here..and i have good friends..very much become habitual of the environment..etc..How can i settle there i don't know...Friend can u tell what i do...?
17 responses
@akssah (118)
• India
4 Apr 10
I prefer to live in my native place i.e. Madhubani.
• China
1 Apr 10
in my opinion ,i'd like to live the place where my heart want to .if i live a place which i don't love it ,i will feel very tired everyday .for parents i can bring them to live with me ,if they don't accept, i will every weekend and holiday to visit them ,letting them know i do love them.
@dzhzfj (25)
• China
1 Apr 10
the place where i have been grown,because my family and my friend in here,i like here,i want to have my own houese with my love people
@Gothicfb1 (141)
1 Apr 10
in the place where's not populated and and not over polluted...
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
I suggest you live in the place where you grew up... Because it is hard to adapt again in another place where you want to live but you cant understand the society in it.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
You should decide where your heart is. But in my opinion, I think you should stay where you are right now. It seems you are enjoying your life in your present place
• United States
1 Apr 10
if you think you are happy where you live now, and you have good future there, then just stay there. Just tell your father honestly how you want your life to be.! why you don't want to go back.! so he won't feel bad.! I know he will understand you!
@irent23 (148)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
1 Apr 10
Hello Friend..how about try to have a vacation first in the place of your father's house.and explore first the thing you didn't explore in the place you use to live.Maybe you like it there too.and I'm sure your father will love your idea.There's no harm in trying my friend..
@sofabnnn (109)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
You know, that would really depend. It is going to be your decision by the end of the day. Where you will settle for good. But if you don't have any finances to support yourself in your preferable place then you should live with your father first. I know you can adapt to it and it needs time of course. It's nice knowing that you will live again in a place you lived before and that it's kinda new. Don't you think?
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
You should follow what your parents want to happen. Sometimes things get into trouble every-time you contradict your parents. Parents knows what is best for you and them. Obey!
@zcastil (20)
• Costa Rica
31 Mar 10
It all depends on your conditions, how old are you??? if you are an adult-mantain yourself you can try to see if you can stay where you are but if you still need your parents in a financial way you better go with them, I believe that it is not the place but the possibilities you might have. I am telling you this because I am living this situation with my sister.. she did not want to go with my parents to live in another state and it is very hard for her because she still depends on them 100%.
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
i want to live near beach it can be anywhere as long as its near beach and its safe. i want to grow old with clean nor fresh air its so relaxing, and the sounds of wave is like music to my ears that makes me have a good night sleep. though in reality check this, i only want this a vacation house coz i still preferred of living in the city since everything is nearby, like church, malls, school, shop and etc. while i still have work then yes i need to live in the heart of the city to avoid being late. but once i got old, a beach resort is a perfect place for that.
@common_man (1799)
• India
31 Mar 10
Hi friend, First let me tell you my story. My father was a state government servent. He used to get transferred to different villages in the state in which he was serving, every 3-4 year. So since my childhood, till i started doing job, i used to change house, town every 3-4 year. When I started my job its transferrable all over my country, every 5 years. So again I am shiting my family from one place to other every five year or so. I see it as very good thing, I used to get to know, different states, different culture and different people, due to my transferrable job. As regards friend, wherever i go i make nw friends and i do not leave old friends, so my friend circle gets widened due to transferrable job. Now, you are getting one chance to expand your horizon, go and grab the opportunity. Those , who are your real friend , will stay in touch with you, wherever you go. And you will make some new friends also. BEst Luck friend.
@ghieptc (2525)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
I want to live in London to visit the queen of England.lol. I think it's good to live in our home sweet home where we born.
@alphenor (687)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
I think you must live where your heart wants to. You should live in a place where you are comfortable and relaxed. You should not pressure yourself in things like that because you're already 18 or more I think. Maybe you should tell your father what you really feel.
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
Well you have to see if which one has more peaceful surroundings.You will have that feeling where your guts will say you like to grow old in a place or not. It would be helpful too if you have some friends thats living there already so you wont have a hard time adjusting to the place. Anywhere is fine, so long as u feel homey in that place. (^_^)
@allknowing (73025)
• India
31 Mar 10
My abode - This is the place where I live.
The place where I am at the moment. This house was designed by me and it is a constant source of joy to me.