What you will do when some unknown makes a proposal to you?
March 31, 2010 5:54pm CST
On one find day if an unknown person comes to you and says " I love you and I have been waiting for this moment for the past three years to tell you ".What would be your reaction to the situation? Will you say or no to the proposal? It looks really bit awkward but how will handle the situation. Dealing such delicate situations is so difficult. Think before you give your response!!!
6 Apr 10
why would you say "yes,i want to spend my lifetime loving you" to the person you've never even met before? it's like risking your life,right? but if i am the woman who's been proposed by a man i can tell him "can we just stop and talk awhile and get to know each other" first before jumping to things like that. maybe its not being mean,right?
6 Apr 10
it has not happened with me yet.. its hard to say my reactions.. because i dont any thing like that.. it will never happen i know.. but it happens then i'll say... i respect ur feelings.. if u really love me... but u can understand that i can not make a yes without knowing u... its better we can b friends.. and we can know each other... then i will decide what to do... i would not like to hurt someone.. because i know how much it can hurt.. a no..
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3 Apr 10
I had someone do this once... a courtship type deal if you will. I was young and didn't know much about the gentleman at the time. We shared a mutual friend and I guess that our shared friend said something that made him interested in me. Mike had gotten my email address from our friend as well, and had asked me if I would be interested in marrying him. I laughed because I thought it was some sort of joke, I didn't know later until otherwise. Like I said being young ... I know that I made the right decision in saying no, but from time to time I wonder how my life might be different.
3 Apr 10
I'd obviously say no to this proposal. Though this seems kind of like a stalker situation that I'm dealing with here. I've seen this person around for 3 years (because they've seen me) and yet I don't know this person. I feel stalked and disturbed. I'd say no to the proposal but let the person down easy, don't go too harsh on them.
1 Apr 10
Thats cool. If I am a woman and that person is a man I will surely say yes. However, I can respond by nodding in agreement instead of the more formal whisper of yes. Once I have him as my boyfriend I'll wait what surprises he show to me and if I inspire his life that would be great. From there, everything is a matter of maintenance to the relationship. It can be depressing at times but if ever there's a trick to keep it going on it is the trust and patience for him and not only love.