It is possible a serious relationship between two people ......

Romania
April 1, 2010 12:14am CST
..... who do not speak the same language? Do you think a love relation stand between two people who speak different languages, even though they speak a common language at a medium level? I think it is very difficult, almost impossible relationship between two people who do not speak the same language well, that will always create misunderstandings, arguments will begin, one would say something, the other will feel hurt, even without reason . Can not joke, because my opinion is the hardest to joke in a foreign language. Relationship requires communication, and if those two do not speak a language very well at a high level, of course sooner or later will be problems. What do you think about this? I am not entitled?
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17 responses
@vallie (33)
• India
1 Apr 10
HI regards, It is good question. love is based on chemical reaction. when that is happening, there nothing like language, age, religion,money, time, and other factors will bother u dear. thanks vallie
• Romania
1 Apr 10
Hi, sometimes the theory is so different from what happens in reality. Even though we like to believe that love is strong, sometimes love is so fragile, and only a few words may be falling apart ... Maybe you're right, maybe I'm right, who knows?
@vallie (33)
• India
1 Apr 10
HI regards, no one can escape from this chemical reaction. many people maintain double standard with (dishonest) relationship in reality that's why u look like confused don't worry dear. Vallie
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
It's not hard to do this easy for both lovers who love each other. Yes i beleive that communications is very important and this is common to all but difficulty is not the wall for them to continue their love. I have a friend who loves each other but they are speaks in different language and yet it will not become their problem. They both studied the languages of everyone. And so far they still in each others arm. Thanks and have a nice day!
• Romania
1 Apr 10
This is great, if your friend are still toghether, but if they want talk about something very important, when they must to make jokes, talk about problems, is not hard?
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
2 Apr 10
I really don't think so...most relationships are built on communication...it would be different if one couldn't speak or hear b/c there are alternatives like signing or writing but when two ppl don't speak the same language well...that makes a huge gap. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
3 Apr 10
It has happened. Very very rare though. Communication is very important.
• India
1 Apr 10
Hello Marianna45, Even I feel such relations are difficult and if we look around us, we will find very few such couples. Even in my circle, I hv a friend who is punjabi and is married to a french man. But in her case, she is fluent in french and after teaching the language in India, she had gone to France for further studies and there she met the guy. But now, the gentleman has shifted to India along with his wife and is too much attached to her. In their case the wife has learnt her husband's language, therefore there is no communication problem. Even the man has learnt little bit of hindi and is okay with his in-laws. Looking at them, I hv realised that such couples pick up their spouse's mother tongue and are then more comfortable otherwise living together will be a problem.
• Romania
1 Apr 10
Hi, i think that this kind of relation, where they speak different languages, are very hard to keep alive; only if they really love each other, and have a lot of patient they will be toghether for all life, i know somebody who is in this kind of relation, and even she fight a lot for this relation...is very hard to keep it.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 10
really difficult for me to imagine it, which one is a china man who spoke only Chinese while her partner is a Africa women who spoke only African language ..... whether it is possible both will fall in love? how they can tell her love ?
• Romania
1 Apr 10
We are idealists, and we like to believe that love can overcome everything, but ... I wonder if what we want with what is in reality is not very different, both can speak English to say, but how to tell a joke of something clever nuances in speech? In my opinion is very hard, almost impossible
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
1 Apr 10
I would love to have such a relationship. That`s because i can lear her language faster , and she can learn my language faster . We can Both move in a country ( mine or her`s ) or why not, in a country where they speak english . As english it`s the most common language on the planet, i think that we can understand each other , and even some tiny jokes . In time, all it`s possbile , maybe my half it`s really speaking another language, why not ?
• China
1 Apr 10
but i think you will be happy even though you say differernt languages.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
1 Apr 10
it is possible to have serious relationship between two people if both of thenm realy love each other!or not
• India
1 Apr 10
look at first give me an answer of a simple question -can any relation be stood without faith? think my dear think it hard.you will get your answer. the fact is that in these days when we build a relation we forget the basic things and indulge into others like personality, language, look etc. then it becomes a good recruitment not relationship, right? so plz, if u find anything to believe him/her go ahead. afterall there is nothing like "standard relationship" - it is 'us' who can make it so.
@drshav (205)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Anything is possible when it comes to love. If you have different languages then it not too late to learn about their language. When you love someone you will do anything just to learn and understand each other.
@renifa12 (104)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
I think it is possible,,, as they all say, love conquers all,, so if it can move mountains and cross the deepest sea then why not a language which can be learned?
• Bulgaria
1 Apr 10
i think that misunderstandings happen more often when people speak the same language, because they are sure the other person will get it all right from the words while when the verbal comunication is not good, you'll be surprised how much the smiles, the gestures and the little dayly actions will become more important and speack for themselves and, of course, it's a possibility to improve your drawing ;)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
well i think its not a problem after all, if only they will try to have a good communication or even study the english language together, they will be able to have a good relationship, for example many filipino marryied american or other race but they dont have much problem with them because the filipino's have mastered the english language and i think love will definitely bond the two eventhough they speak of different language, if you really love your partner you will adjust to him/her, the best solution for me for that matter is good communication,love and understanding, hope it will help you
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
For me language it is not important but the love is blind if you don't like to speak because you don't understand.
• India
1 Apr 10
yes is possible to Sirius relation in tow people now.
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Well it might be difficult but at certain levels love find its ways in mysterious ways that is. For example ive known alot of japanese marrying filipinas, yes they both speak in english but both dont speak each others native tongue.But they manage to do away with it. They still seem to understand each other and by all means appreciate and love one another. Maybe thats when adjustments come into play, they both adjust to the point that they will meet half way ;)Yes its a challenge but if you truly love someone it wont be a difficult challenge at all ;)