If u love somebody, Let him/her free, If he/she comeback, he/she is yours...

Malaysia
April 1, 2010 8:51pm CST
Do you believe this phrase? I always believe in love, love is about faith and destiny. If you really love someone, let them free, if they really love you, she/he will comeback. But, in a same time, lead them to your heart by 'playing kite' terms; let go a bit, pull a bit, then let go some more, then pull some more. We will beloved when we ready to love.
8 responses
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
3 Apr 10
It is IMPOSSIBLE to force somebody to love you when they don't love you to begin with!!! Occasionally as a person gets to know you better, they just might fall in love with you, but it is NOT because you decided they should love you!!! Love is something that comes with time. Love is a gift GIVEN from the heart. Whether or not the other person accepts it IS UP TO THEM!!!
3 Apr 10
I totally agree with this. Sometimes we have to let our loved ones go their own way. It doesnt mean leaving them but let them live their life to the fullest as an individual. Do the same for yourself and both of you will become better persons
• China
2 Apr 10
i really agree with you, i think if you really care about somebody, it dosen't means that she or he is belong to you, they have their own liberties. if you really love him or her, you need to suppot them whatever they want to do, if you think they are wrong you need try to correct them not criticism. you give them some free space to do what they want, to make what kinds of friends they like, to give she or he some time to miss you, maybe it can strengthen your relationship, then she or he willing to come back, share his or her problems and feeling to you.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
I really dont think so. I think its more of a choice if you are going to end up with this person or not. This concept is like believing in having a soulmate and soulmates are not real cause ending up with someone has something to do with your choice and not about fate or something.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
I think that wherever you may go and where ever you maybe. Time and distance may separate you but if you are really meant for each other nothing could hinder you to be together.. Love is like that, we just let go for now and see how it goes. It may not be something you really expected but it will just come and not stop..
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Yes I believe in this saying. Actually, I believe in the saying "If you're meant to be, you will be.." I believe that if you're meant to be, you will stay together. But if something happens while in the relationship, maybe you're not with the right person. I don't really believe in letting someone go just to see if you guys will end up together, but if in case you do get separated from each other and you happen to find your way back to each other, then I believe you guys are meant to be together.
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
I totally do i believe if you really love that person that much then you should sacrifice and set him or free just to know if the said person will come back then your really meant to be.Now if it happends that he or she dont come back well thats life, what matters is that you know he or she is happy then you should be happy for that person too. Good day and happy mylotting!
• China
2 Apr 10
If you love him, just let him go, this is what I believe true love is. Love is supposed to be happy not for self but for the other people involved. If he want to be free, just let him go, do not try to force him to be together with you. It is no wise and not good to you both. Fortunately, if he changes his mind to stay with you someday, he will really appreciate your support of letting him go, and when you are still for him at that time, you two are made a couple.