What causes a love relationship break?
April 4, 2010 8:39am CST
Hello mylotters, Starting a discussion after a long time. Well i am working on a project and need some causes for broken relationship in which young boys and girls find reasons to break up. But as for now i can't think of many reasons. So please help me listing some Causes of break of a love relationship between a boy and a girl. Thanks
4 Apr 10
Well, Dark, there are loads of reasons which causes a boy and girl to break relationships. Since you are from Bangladesh, which has a similar culture to that of India, there are relations which break because the families do not accept the relation. Now, although this was a big reason for break ups previously, it is not such big reason now a days, but still this happens. Of course, love relations break, because sometimes the couples concerned realise, they do not love each other after sometime. They might also fall for someone else and then break up with the previous one. I have seen people break up because of petty arguments. Young people of my age just do not want to give time to a relationship. Everybody is in a hurry. Everybody even seems to have a back up partner. So, they hardly try to make a relation work. Other than that in India, there are social and religious problems because of which relations break.
4 Apr 10
Causes of breaks of a love relationship between young boys and girls could differ greatly than reasons of break up of a love relationship between a man and a woman. However, in my opinion, the main reason is due to unclear expectations that then lead to arguments. Push and pull, a tug a war for control is another factor but again, the bottom line is due to unclear expectat6ions and also preconceived notions. Just expecting without actually knowing. What it boils down to is lack of communication and I mean talking through important aspects that could otherwise negatively affect a love relationship. I have also found that two people can come together simply out of passion and or lust without really knowing a person. They get married up and suddenly realize that their interests are very different (which isn't a bad thing necessarily) and perhaps that they just don't love the person, at all. The jump on marriage was decided upon in bliss. Again, without taking time, a lot of time to get to know a person before getting romantically involved can lead to a break up because their is a big lack of communication which through talking, two people romantically interested in each other can learn so much. This way they can get a good idea as to their compatibility. Without communication we are going on with preconceived notions which leaves the relationship destined to fail. Communication is the key to a lasting love relationship.
7 Apr 10
You are most welcome. Communication is the key. If more people would choose to communicate more, I feel that we would have far less divorces as well. Sometimes we can take life far too seriously as well, leaving us rigid and hard to communicate with. I am glad that you were able to pull something helpful out of my response to you. Cheers.
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5 Apr 10
There are so many reasons and circumstances that can cause a loving relationship to fall apart. one of the biggest contributors of this cause is trust. Once you lose trust in a relationship, it is surely a downward spiral to nonexistence.
5 Apr 10
Hi dark! Well, based on my observation on my brothers who sometimes experiences problems with their girlfriends is that, mostly it's the girls' attitude of being demanding and clingy that causes a string of problems in relationships and later on will lead to break up. My brothers would often say that it's irritating when their girls always wanted to see them and be with them all the time, like always demanding time to be together when sometimes they feel that they need some time alone, or that they need to do something important, or that they have their own schedule, and not seeing the girl immediately when she asks for it makes their girlfriends mad and show childish tantrums as if, not being understanding but just wants to be with them. I think it's unreasonable sometimes when you become clingy with your GFs or BFs. Hope that helps. Ciao!
4 Apr 10
Hey look who has come out of the woodwork! The usual things are jealousy - one or other of the couple concerned doesn't wamt their partner to continue seeing other friends, The distance between the two making it difficult to be together. Differenct cultures or backgrounds causing friction. He wants a long-term relationship and she is not ready (or the other way round) She dresses in a 'flashy' way (which is probable what made him notice here in the first place) and he starts laying down the law, telling her to alter her ways. I leave the others for those who respond later Good to seee you posting again my friend!
4 Apr 10
See the picture the same smile when i saw you. I really feel happy every time i see my bald friend. Well seems no more responses are coming out to help me out. So it would be nice if you can help me with a few more reasons. I know the bald lady is always there when anyone needs help.
6 Apr 10
i think most of the reasons why people in relationship broke up with each other is because of infidelity, wherein one becomes unfaithful to his/her partner. this is where trust starts to be lost and happiness becomes a hard thing to feel. the second i guess is career, when one have to choose the career for the future which may mean sacrificing the relationship he/she has at the present. and there are a lot of other reasons for breaking up. family, studies, distance, clash personalities and a lot more.
5 Apr 10
Hey,dear mylotter,there are many reasons for lovers to break up.I'm in a good love relationship now,he is so kind that we hardly ever have a quarrel.In my personal expenrence,the reason that cause a love relatonship break:trustless,lack of comunication,rhe diffirences of each other's character,lose of passion,having another relations...and so on.But I still have faith in the real and unswering love.haha,Happy to share the opinions with you,hope it will be helpful! Windflower