help! I'm confuse.
By emzymemzy
@emzymemzy (89)
Philippines
April 5, 2010 10:11am CST
I'm always thinking of a guy I like, and I can't help it. Am I in love? What are the signs of being in love? Maybe I'm just obsessed. I'm really confuse here. Could you help me out? I sometimes hate myself for thinking of him too often. What shall I do to stop it? Help me please my fellow lotters. Thanks so much.
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6 responses
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
You know if it's love when you learn about his negative characteristics (especially those things you really hate) and still love him. Thinking about him often and wanting to see him doesn't always mean you're inlove. Because love is not an emotion, it is more like an action. Maybe what you are feeling right now is infatuation, and not necessarily love. You will know if it is love, as time passes by, when you really get to know the person.
Why would you want to stop thinking about him?
@emzymemzy (89)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
I'm scared because I know his flaws and accept it. I'm now beginning to like what I hate about him. It's scary, stressing and frustrating not knowing if he feels the same way. That's why I want to stop before it goes deep. He sometimes look at me secretly. He talks to me and the next day he just completely ignores me. Very weird behavior. Sometimes he wants my full attention on him and he makes small things a big problem. I don't understand him sometimes. So I just ignore him when he's moody. He's so confusing.
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Hmm.. I think he likes you too. But let him do the first move. because if you will be the one who does the first move, most likely he won't take you seriously. If I were you, just ignore him and pretend that you don't like him. Play hard to get, to really test if he likes you.
@sonnetsixtynine (85)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
just relax and keep yourself busy with other things. if he likes you, he will eventually tell you. if not, and you still think you love him, then it wouldn't hurt to let him know. if he doesn't feel the same way, at least you won't have anything to hide/be scared of. hopefully your friendship is strong enough to continue even when he knows how you feel. if it doesn't, then he wasn't meant to be your friend in the first place.
@myzire72 (1154)
• Singapore
5 Apr 10
Since you've already mentioned that you like him, then it's perfectly normal for you to keep thinking of him. That's one sure sign that you really like him a lot. Now, I don't understand what you are confused about, unless he is attached or married, and that you can't afford to have any fondness for him. If that's really the case, then you should probably put a stop to your incessant thinking of him. On the other hand, if he's still single and available, then go for it. Let him know about your feelings for him.
@kranthirockz (262)
• India
5 Apr 10
if you are in love thats great!!!!...and its simple to know the guy is intrested in you
so here are some tips...whether his is watching YOU constantly in college or in office...and he is try to talk to you? for this if your answer is YES! ...then definetly his is showing some interest...SO GO AHEAD...any HOPE YOUR LOVE WILL BE SUCCEDED...
