April 6, 2010 2:02pm CST
I hate to say this and all but I find it difficult to fit my boyfriends in when I have so much to do in my life. I have school work and work work and family and then everythig else. I make time for him because I care so much about him and enjoy spending time with him but Im stretched for time. Have you ever encountered this or do you think that Im just ming myself busy for some unconscience reason?
6 Apr 10
Yes I encounter this every day. My girlfriend and I have quite some work for school sometimes, so we can't always be together. But the thought of the person being there for you, still is a relief ;) It's not only you, there is plenty of people with the same situation. Enjoy your day ;)
6 Apr 10
artsyfartsygypsy, In the first place, I feel that you should really set your priorities and realize that your boyfriend is actually secondary to what you have to do. I hope that you will remember to get yourself a good education while time permits and catch up with your social life and circle during the school holidays. I am sure by then, the both of you would have all the time you want with each other. Likewise, for him, I am sure if he is also schooling like you - would really have to fulfill his end of the bargain. Take care.
• United States
6 Apr 10
Wow, Sky, what great advice! There is the old chestnut about if you love someone set them free and if they come back, it was meant to be. This is not that, but a related point. Focus on what you need to focus on for now and if there is some love there it will wait. I hope the boyfriend is not dropping some sense of guilt on you for doing what you have to do away from your relationship. That would indicate selfishness on his part and hey, you don't need that, eh?
• United Arab Emirates
7 Apr 10
I think you have to get your priorities straight. If you really love him and want to be with him you will not feel that it is a nuisance. You feel that you have to make time for family, and studies etc. I feel you are making an excuse for some unconscience reason, otherwise you will not feel like this.