What do you do when someone or something hurt you to the extreme??

India
April 7, 2010 7:11am CST
Hi friends,i don't know if you'd feel the same way i feel.I used to be very wild and it puts me so down when something or someone gets me really pissed off.how do you feel or face the situation?do you breakdown and cry?do you avenge against him or her?What is the right way and attitude towards such situations?Let me know fro you all.thanks
3 responses
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
i will going to hate that person and will never give him a second chance again unless he will prove something. and of course, like what everybody do, i just go to my room and cry till i got tired and sleep then when i wake up i have eye bugs that i cant even go out.
• India
15 Apr 10
lol that is self-pity again and unfortunately,that would put yourself so down again.:)
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
When someone hurts me so badly, I am in a silent mode. I don't talk, I am just thinking on what I am going to do. Sometimes I write in my diary to cool myself. I don't want a fight, I don't want to be aggressive. Maybe in this kind of situation, it is better to cool yourself first. Try doing something, in this way you can forget it for a while. Go in a peaceful place, because it can help you to control your emotion.
• India
8 Apr 10
Grace..i appreciate your attitudes towards such a situation.Normally people don't try to cool themselves up but they ended up in a violent way and do things that is not beneficial and going to a quiet place and meditating is not bad and it is the right way i guess,one strong point.:)
@diamania (7011)
• Netherlands
7 Apr 10
Break down and cry internally, I can't take it when people criticize me. I can't defend myself because I am on the look for words to no avail. That's one of the biggest weak points of mine: assertiveness.