What is better kissing or holding hands?

United States
April 13, 2010 7:33am CST
Mylot Me and my girlfriend have enjoyed kissing but there is something about holding each others hand that just makes me feel loved inside i don't know why but its gets my heart beating for her. Anyways what is better making out with you loved one or holding there hand?
9 responses
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
13 Apr 10
if I'm were dating, of course, for proof of my love for his and vice versa, as proof of her love to me, we should be kissing .... grasp/ holding hand has not become a proof if we're dating
• United States
25 Apr 10
well then again advokatku what is more important a kiss or holding that hand of someone you love because if they just left you what would you remember more a kiss or the whole time you were holding her hand i know for sure if my girlfriend left me right now i would remember all those times i held her time though the good times and the rough times
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
13 Apr 10
Kissing may be a romantic gesture but holding hands is more endearing. You can kiss someone and the moment is gone. You can hold someone's hand for as long as you want.
• United States
25 Apr 10
sender you make a good point i to agree with you holding someones hand that you love you wanna do it forever till the day you die but kissing someone is just a way to say i love you with actions
@OConnell87 (1042)
13 Apr 10
i like holding hands in public because it makes me feel special that when i'm with someone they want people to know that they are with me and i liked holding hands cuddled up on the sofa too so i would say holding hand is better
• United States
25 Apr 10
i to enjoy holding my girlfriends hand it makes me feel like i got the whole world in my hand he hands are so soft like a babys bottom makes me feel like i am invincible when i am with her hope you enjoy your boyfriend/husband as much as i enjoy my girlfriend
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
each has a different purpose which are, for me, both essential for a relationship.i think when both people are in love with each other, they would enjoy any of the two. with me and my husband, when we are just at home, we always kiss and hug, and when we go out, we are inseparable as we always hold hands with each other.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
13 Apr 10
its like asking which is better. eating or drinking.. each serves a different purpose. Likewise kissing and holding hads dont give the same pleasure. Each has its place and pleasure points. Its fun to hold hands in public but can u do the same in a busy place?
• United States
25 Apr 10
well you make a good point but then again people have there opinions on the topic many people i know would prefer to kiss then hold hands like on the other side i would like to hold hands instead of kiss
@ouch88 (32)
15 Apr 10
Well, me and my girl kisses a lot but its rare for us to hold each others hand.. I just don't know why.. I only hold her when I feel so weak, and when I really want to show how I appreciate her. So my answer would be HOLDING HANDS. It makes me feel that she really do love me when she holds my hand in public.
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
14 Apr 10
I think you touched it right there when you stated how you feel when you hold her hand. Think about that, why is that? Its not about comparing what is better, but its about nurturing the connection and enjoying that warmth and charm your other have bleses you with. One should work with the next and lead and build on.
@polino (54)
14 Apr 10
each has its characteristics, holding hands expresses security and comfort in each other, it depicts the love of both individuals, it is simple yet it carries all the messages of feelings for the world to see. kissing is more on the intimate part of the relationship, but it also depends on the kind of kiss, it may be just a peck or the heavy ones, but a both kiss and the holding of hands symbolizes the love of both....
@hcvvmk (175)
• Malaysia
13 Apr 10
kissing is to show your affection towards her but holding hands in the public shows your caring for her and it has sweet memories..well do it both at a different time :D P.S. missed the moments whereby me and my ex held hands together..