How far she can go in catching a guy's attention

@zim1fW (285)
Philippines
April 14, 2010 8:13am CST
She is strongly drawn to a guy who seemed not looking towards here, should a woman take the initiative in introducing herself or even ensuring that the guy sees it clear and without doubt that she is interested in him?
3 responses
oxio10
@oxio10 (135)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
Personally I don't like to initiate. I just wait for him to approach me, anyway if he is also interested then that's good. What if that guy have no interest in you and you assume he is interested in you so you take initiative in introducing yourself? Shame on you at the end, he might think your a flirt. :(
zim1fW
@zim1fW (285)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
But if you really admired the person and badly want to get close to him. Would you still suffer in silence and not do something at least to establish acquiantance, or whatever is comfortable and subtle?
tessagarrett
@tessagarrett (57)
• United States
14 Apr 10
ya because i think sometimes guys are totally oblivious when a girl likes him so why not just step up lol
zim1fW
@zim1fW (285)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
I agree with you on that. I'm not sure if most of the girls will. Which limit you cannot go beyond when doing that?
miaoliang
@miaoliang (20)
• China
14 Apr 10
sure,why not?but you'd better make sure that you should understand each other before you make the final decision.
zim1fW
@zim1fW (285)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Is there an issue of over-doing it that can turn off a guy? How far do you think should she go without hitting it wrong with him?