What are the tips/secrets to your partner to stick unto you?

Philippines
April 14, 2010 10:59am CST
To all who wants to share about their tips and secrets of relationships. What do you do or tips that your partner will stick unto you? How do you do it? Is it remarkable, visible and effective? Why those husband /wife even though their partner is handsome and beautiful still look with others ? Do you think they love it or just go with what they like to do? Husband and wife wanna hear your voices about this areas. Hope tyo hear you soon. I also open to all singles if they wanna have thoughts to share too.Good luck to all your endeavors!
3 responses
@sugaree (109)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
I believe the secrets to a good and long-lasting relationship are love, respect, communication and prayers. If you have all these, your relationship will be smooth-sailing. It wouldn't mean absence of problems or conflict but it would mean that the two of you can handle any situation together. love should be present in every relationship. sometimes, the problem comes when people love excessively. Before we love others, we must learn to love ourselves first. But we must make sure that we do not become selfish along the way. Respect is also very essential for a relationship to work. It is very important to be respected and the best way to be is to respect your partner back. Miscommunication or lack of communication can be a very gread cause or aggravating factor of conflicts. That is the reason why couples should always talk about their problems. After both has calmed down and both can already talk ang think well, it is helpfult to air out you concerns to each other. It is often advised not to sleep without resolving the issues. Of course, last but definitely not the least, every relationship needs the guidance of out Creator. Regardless of what religion you have, both of you should always be guided by your God. Prayers are very helpful in every relationship. If you have all these, i believe there is nothing that both of you cannot overcome. I am very blessed to have those in my relationship with my special someone. We have been together for more than three years, and we are still counting. Our life together was at first very unpredicatble. Going into a relationship with him was like "come-what-may". I honestly could not imagine us getting this far, at that time. But because we had the kind of love that grows, and develops through time, that love had a strong foundation that could not easily break down. Because we both respect each other, we always thing of each others' feelings. As much as possible, we do not let any conflict just ruin the 3 years that we have worked hard for to build. Of course, without God, we wouldn't have gone this far. He is the one who gives us so much love, so that we give love to others, He is the one who teaches us to respect one another. :D
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Dear sugaree, Really have many ideas got from and you and don't know how to say thanks for all of these long thoughts and ideas you have shared to me. A first one to do so that is so meaningful and a very loving tips in sticking love to our partners. Very well said and so grateful with these brilliant ideas from your mind and real experiences so gald to hear you this time. Its really amazing and wonderful to note. Take care!
@sugaree (109)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
it's comforting to hear that you have gotten something useful out of my response. you do not have to thank me for sharing my thoughts, in fact, i should be the one to thank you for allowing me to speak my mind. it was nice telling you about my experiences and learnings. if only all people here are like you, people who appreciate a person's efforts to share their experience, then this site would be the best site.
@ouch88 (32)
15 Apr 10
Hmm I guess it's the personality that makes a woman stick unto a guy.. Well, Im not saying that you must be a very good man, but at lease show her that she means a lot to you and always make time to communicate with her and surprise her with any cute gift. Girl's likes that a lot! In addition.. try to be sweet when she's mad. It make's them feel that you care. That's all that I can say.
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• Philippines
30 May 10
Good idea because I like gifts all the time , joke but real.
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
15 Apr 10
I listen, and that is the number one thing that you can do. Listening, is the most powerful relationship building tool on the planet. With Appreciation.
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
15 Apr 10
For something that is so important, you would think more people would take the time to learn and practice the skill. I find that very few people do though. With appreciation.
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
Listening is very important to each everyone.Without this way he cannot understand what you feels, hurt, happy or something else. And you are a good listener for me as well too. I really appreciate this moment and thanks...
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