what do women look for in a man
April 15, 2010 2:22pm CST
i have read about a discussion which asks what men want in a woman. but the discussion is only for men. most of them look for attractive physical appearance, nice body and only a few if not one look for good personality or attitude. i believe women are less likely to look at the physical appearance more than the personality of a man, because i am one. but i would like to find out if other women think that way too. how about you?
• United States
15 Apr 10
The main thing I think I looked for in a man was yes there appearance b/c that's the first thing you see and attractes you to that person. After that def their personality b/c if you can't stand the conversations you'll go mad! Personally when I met my husband it was more of a friendship first before the attraction. We got to know all about each other then fell in love. My husband is my best friend! He's great! I love him so much! Attraction goes only so far too! I think anyways! B/c first you may be attracted to a person for their looks then after not so much but if you love their personality too then you'll automatically fall in love with their looks again! I hope that even made sense!LOL!
15 Apr 10
yes of course, that made a lot of sense. i totally agree with you. that's basically the reason why i don't believe in love at first sight. i mean, yes, we get attracted at first sight. its the looks that get us attracted but it's not the looks that make us fall in love. because if it is, then we'll simply fall out of love if we find someone more attractive. i believe that when you've seen all the person's flaws, and still willingly accepts that person despite the flaws, that's the time you can say you have found true love. i am glad that you have found that in your husband. and i am blessed to have found it in the man i love :D he doesn't have the best looks in the world, but he has the greatest love for me. and for me, that's what matters.
15 Apr 10
that's great! what makes a person charming is his appearance plus his personality. appearance without a personality is nonsense :D Lol it's good to hear you're happy with your husband. it seems like you're so proud of him. i hope he knows he's blessed to have you :D