afraid to love again

@helman (115)
Indonesia
April 17, 2010 6:27pm CST
Me and her since 2 months ago almost 3 times a week and more always meet. And now almost every day she comes to my hause. I am afraid if I like and fall in love with her. Help me out
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8 responses
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Hi there! Why are you afraid to fall in love again? Love is the most wonderful feeling in the world that even if you sometimes get hurt, it's still worth the shot. It's still better to have loved and not succeed than to never have the chance to know how it is to love or be loved. Don't judge a relationship that is only beginning. For all you know, she might just be the perfect one for you! :) Love is a gamble, either you risk losing it all or you don't take the risk but never get the chance to win...
• Malaysia
18 Apr 10
Agree !!
@zim1fW (285)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
First thing to ask yourself is why are you afraid. Is it for lack of self-confidence? For fear of getting hurt? ANy other reasons? Answer that questions first so we can help you.
@helman (115)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 10
I dont know what happened to me. I afraid maybe because I over easy to fall in love with someone that near with me. its very not right
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
21 Apr 10
LOve if u really like her.. WHy hestitate?? Since she's comfortable together with u, why afraid?? She's taking more initiative than u right now, and it should prove that she likes u too.. IF u really like her, u should take some actions and bring the relationship a step further.. PLus, time waits for nobody.. By time, u decide to do anything, it will be too late, and her akwardness will start to show up too..
@coffeegurl (1467)
• United States
18 Apr 10
DudE! What is so bad about falling in love? Is she hot, attractive, smart, fun, fairly healthy, able to have children, nice teeth(I shouldn't talk:). Why should you be afraid of what happens naturally. She must like you a lot if she is over there like EVERY day.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 10
if you really love, you better express. why you should be afraid of falling in love. if you have not tried why should be afraid. indeed sometimes it makes us sick. everything that happens has a cause and effect. so you have to be ready with whatever happens.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
dear helman, nobody here will say dont fall in love because we all know that being in love would feel so wonderful, so inspiring, and you get happy feelings. but if you are afraid to love her because she is married, well, you should be. get someone available. hahaha. relax, be happy. ann
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
If you say that you are afraid to love again, then it means that you have loved before. What happened to your previous relationship? Do not be afraid to love again because love is always about taking chances. Love may fall out but it will always be there ready to be welcome by anyone who is willing. I too felt the same when my first relationship did not go so well. It took me some time to love again but I did love again and I am still. Take it one step at a time and not try to predict what is going to happen in the future, but you can be prepared for it.
@caliya (1170)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
why are you afraid to fall in love with her? is is because you don't want to be hurt? well life is like that. there is no gurantee that we will not be hurt so if you are into each other, go for it. take a risk and who know this time you will find exactly what you are looking for.