lets talk about the un wanted marriage of sania mirza and shoiab malik.

Hi syedsajid, honestly first I was shocked, a bit hurt because somewhere a feeling of betrayal came up. But being a mature person, I realized this was emotional matter, and not political issue. If I fall in love with an American, I would still be anti national, wouldnt I? Today we are on friendly terms, tomorrow it may not be the case? So let us not politicise personal issues is how I told myself. Of course, I remembered Captain Kalia, and many other Kargil martyrs. But fellow countryman, there once was Hitler's Germany, and allied fought them bitterly. Many lives were lost at Normandy, and many other places. But today, Steffi Graf, and Boris Becker command as much respect as Serena Williams, and Federer. Let us not extrapolate sins of the previous generations to the next generation. Let us look at each generation as it is. I have found some good Pakistani friends out here. Educated and human. They dont want wars. They are as much in trap of politicians and religious heads as we are. So why must we fill our hearts with hatred for something we never experienced? We've forgiven many in history. We are friendly with British who ruled us, and some were rather cruel. So why cant we forgive our friends across the border? Mind you, genetically we are closer to them than to any other races. Having said all that - I think Shoaib Malik is not somebody I would have given my daughter to. Especially if she was as pretty as Sania Mirza. And especially since he lied about Ayesha Siddique, instead of being an honorable man. No ways. I would have tried to find a guy like Irfan Pathan for this doll. Pity I dont have any say in the matter. I just hope things work out well for the two.