When you choose your special partner, will you set criteria?
April 26, 2010 5:24am CST
Hello, mylotters. When you choose your special partner or need to make a decision on the person persuing you, how will you arrange the following parameters as your top considerations: appearance, economic conditions, family background, personal qualities(morality), emotional foundation, and age difference? One of my present companions said to me "Strong financial conditions of a man is a prerequisite for her to choose a mate, and other factors are not so important". Well, as a result, she dropped her ex-boyfriend of 7 years and married a man who can provide her a superior and money-carefree life within a rather short time. I do not understand her behavior. Does the material conditions truly surmount the 7-year emotional foundation? Took off the cloak of money, would she choose this man as her Mr. right? I'm truly not sure. For me, I think personal qualities of a person will go first. We need benevolence and pure hearts to keep the world peace also a family's peace, right?! The emotional foundation will follow up. It always takes time to cultivate and witness the feelings. Then, I will take the financial conditions into consideration but not as a prerequisite. What about you? Share with us.
26 Apr 10
It is just normal to provide a set of criteria when you choose that special someone yet in my own opinion, when destiny himself will show to you whom you are to be with for eternity, your criteria will no longer be applied in the sense that if that special someone is really meant for you, then it is up to both of you to change for the better.