When is it time to turn your child loose?

United States
April 27, 2010 8:19pm CST
I have a twenty-one year old daughter. I do not approve of her life style and have told her as much. She lives in a pull behind trailor from the 1960s with her boyfriend. Neither of them work,yet they have money to drink alcohol each day. When do I say enough is enough. I love my child dearly, but I did not raise her this way.
3 responses
• China
28 Apr 10
no matter how you love her,you couldnot choose a lifestyle instead of herself.she is an adault,she has choosen the lifestyle.you have no idea for that.what most important you should do is that you should take care of youself and enjoy yourself.
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
28 Apr 10
She is an adult, and there is not much you can do about that. You should not alienate her or guilt her for the lifestyle she has chosen, as you will only grow apart. She is not living with you right? The best you can do is make sure she is always welcome.
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
If you love you're child teach her how to be independent