Loner
@cheatedaphrodite (810)
Philippines
May 5, 2010 3:51pm CST
I prefer to be alone most of the time. I love being all by myself doing things I love
to do. I hate noise specially when I'm trying to figure out something else. They say I have changed from being a jolly person to being a loner but for me I consider it as being matured. I'm done with night outs, parties and gimmicks. I want to waste my time with more important things than spending hours in those kind of activities that I did before.
Do you think I'm a loner like what my friends told me?
How about you, how do you spend your time?
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9 responses
@charylady (419)
• Philippines
6 May 10
maybe you just outgrew the nights out, parties and gimmicks; you have become more mature. it happens to everyone; just at different times. maybe your friends are still in that stage that you have left behind and that's why they may find it "strange" and say that you have become a loner. your priorities may be changing and you would rather do other more important things but don't alienate your friends too much.
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@beautifulgh (8)
• China
6 May 10
Every one need his own private space,it is all very well for you to be alone.On the contrary,you can think about more things such when you are alone.Do not regard being alone as your biggest flaw.It will influence you mentality and not good for you if you aggrandize this flaw blindly in the mind.
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@bestylish (922)
• Philippines
6 May 10
I also prefer to be alone but the difference between us is that I haven't experienced night outs, and gimmicks. I don't like thos things.
I think you are not a loner. That's just who you are. There others who are willing to accpet you.
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@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
6 May 10
Preferring to be alone most of the time makes you a loner. But choosing not to go out on parties, gimmicks and nightouts doesn't make you a loner. Choosing not to do these things and choosing to do more important things is mature. More mature people think like you and does what you do.
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@lucyland (54)
• Canada
5 May 10
I've noticed a very similar change in me recently. I honestly just don't feel the same push to go out and party. I'm in college as well, so people notice a lot more. Part of it is that even when I do go out to see people I haven't seen in a while, I don't actually get any real quality time with a lot of them. And I find coffees and even other forms of hanging out in the day help you to actually get to know your friends.
I don't think you're a loner, I think you're just moving on. And your friends just miss you. :)
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@RachelleNH (1396)
• United States
6 May 10
You know I've been that same way for awhile now. I don't have any close friends anymore-I kinda pushed them away because they all want to go bar hopping on the weekends and I'm a single mom of 2...I don't do that stuff anymore-much less find it fun. I decided that we were just too different. I enjoy being home and whether it's reading, the internet, watching tv or swimming in the pool with the kids-I'm either working or home. I don't know-it sounds like you still have friends though-everyone needs their "me" time.
@sexygrace (13)
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
Sometimes I want to be alone but not all the time. When I want to be alone its only that I have a problem that I need to think so that I will find a solution. If you want to be alone all the time it means that you are a loner, you want to be alone and you want to spend your time to yourself... Actually theirs no wrong with that, because that is your choice.... If that makes you happy so theirs no problem with that!
