why is that people once close and 2gether become strangers !
By ajaygupta
@ajaygupta (168)
India
May 6, 2010 3:25am CST
often seen that people who are like 2 bodies 1 soul, brothers, lovers,siblings,friends,couples and the list wud b endless end up as the best foe one can have in the whole world.
I sumtimes wonder how can 2 who lived life long 2gether,laughed with u-cried with u, trusted u more than 1 self get over sum mis-comm or differences and act madly spelling names to 1 other. 1 who cried when u wer hurt now doesn't hesitate to hit u, 1 who laughed on ur pranks an now not bear the thought of ur smile, 1 who offered 1st bit of food 2u now sees 2 it that u don't get any thing to eat.
children who were brought up by loving and caring parent kicking them out of the house they built so that their babies won't have to suffer. 1 who turned up places and people when u wer a kid and were hurt or ill or cried wokeup whole night by ur bed when there was any ailment just offended when he/she coughes at the night.
4ends who were separated by birth still were more than blood and life of each other turn foes and are thirsty for the same blood of each other.
I THINK IT IS JUST BECAUSE 1 DOES NOT HAVE FAITH ON 1 SELF.THEY DOUBT THEIR OWN TRUSTWORTHINESS THEN ONLY AN OUTER SOURCE CAN CREATE A HOLE AND MAKE U FALL INTO THE TRAP.
3 responses
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
6 May 10
Anyone can become a stranger to another person. it doesn't make a difference how close you are to that person. Ifd you do not spend enough quality time in a relationship with someone, you grow further apart day by day. Before you know it, you are just two strangers who know each other's names. We don;t mean for situations to turn out that way. Any relationship needs nurturing to keep ir whole. you don't want your best friend to end up as a stranger in the night.
@mlloyd23671 (28)
• United States
6 May 10
I know it may not be the best response, but you also have to take into consideration what took place between those individuals. sometimes emotions get out of hand andone of the two may not be matureenough to handle the blow. there could be cases of betrayaal in which the trust is broken. then there is always the possibility of people changing over time. sometimes people get into the wrong crowd and let that experience change their personality for the worst. that is just a few reason why people who were once so close can become enemies at the drop of a hat.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
6 May 10
oh, you have so many things to express. i am glad you are able to air and express them here. although i was a bit lost somewhere in your writing. anyway, the knowledge that we get from other person is infinite. it is an endless process to know one person. even ourselves are oftentimes surprised on some of our actions. so it is no wonder that people at first who feel so close then suddenly become strangers because that's who we are to each other - strangers. until we open up ourselves to the knowledge of others, they turn into friends, families and partner.
