How Exactly you enjoy life??even ALONE?

@umit_umit (1984)
India
May 7, 2010 10:22pm CST
Do we always needs othe company to enjoy or we can be happy with in ourselves??what do you think in this pretext?how do you enjoy your life?I know thart if I am happy each and every event becomes happier moment for me?even if i am all alone doing nothing??what do you guys say?
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
10 May 10
Sometimes when I having relationship problems or having arguments with people around me, I wish that I were alone, but the truth is I don't really mean it. I can do things alone, but I prefer to spend the time with other people, because I love to talk and I love to have company. When I was younger I travelled alone, and I enjoyed seeing lots of different places and I enjoyed learning new things, but I missed sharing my experiences with another person, and I enjoy my trips a lot more when I travel with my husband or some friends.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
10 May 10
hmm!we can forgive and contine to enjoy each other company!!
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
8 May 10
personally, i think you can't enjoy life when you're alone. even if you do have everything, you don't have anyone to share it with. i guess some people can be happy by themselves, but really, are they truly happy? when something important happens in their lives, they're left with no one to share it with. me, i enjoy life by spending time with my friends. actually, right now i get sad because we can't find much time around our schedules, and some of them are thinking of going some place else to find job. so this making me lonely, i guess really means that i can't enjoy life on my own.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
8 May 10
Hmm!well its time when you are in this period of student life it happens like this as you grow mature you will find when all are in their ways!no one is bothered what you are in that stage currently!and you will find the more you will share the more you will feel irritated
@mapuang (612)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Its good to have a company whenever you go out to make your life happy. But sometimes i want to be alone so that I have a peace of mind and I can meditate alone. Its good to balance your life, go out with someone or go out alone.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
8 May 10
well if the other is always bulling and nagging you want always something!then and you are some what reserve and serious kinds then its better to be all alone then going with one who starts fighiting on the way only,this is the one reason i dont want anybodys company!!but some good friends are there who are really when i ami need!its ok to go with them!
• Philippines
8 May 10
We need both: the company of others and being alone. It does not have to be an either-or situation. We are in a world where there are other beings such as we, and we all interrelate, connect with each other whether directly or indirectly. And this "we" also have "ourselves" to deal with. The point is, we deal with all these in the company of others and while being alone. We need company, as ironic as it may sound, in order to help shape our own identity. However, amidst being with others, or others being with us, there are those moments-hours-days that we have to spend alone in order to also help shape our identity, to assess ourselves and the world from our individual point of view: a reflection period, perhaps, or the likes. The individual is in an individual in the midst of other individuals. We can be happy in both scenarios/ways, and we should be. Not strictly in just one way or the other.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
8 May 10
trur when we know our own identity we are happy in any state may be!
• Philippines
8 May 10
since i was eight years old i've been left from time to time alone in the house. and even until now. i watched t.v do assignments ,go out with friends and have saome working moments. those were the things i often do when im alone.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
8 May 10
well frind yes what else one can do!
• India
8 May 10
No there is no need of company any time to share yourselves.Its your life you enjoy in your ways.Try to enjoy every inch of your life and don't need to company. You may be happy alone now but friend there is a time in your life you must need some one to accompany with you whom you share your thought your likeness your every thing whom you believe. sure the time will come and it comes every ones life. So.............
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
8 May 10
well its very very fine friend!!well said at he last we will see that we all are alone its only a illusion that the othe is only for you!!haa!!
@caliya (1170)
• Philippines
8 May 10
What good is having everything in life when you can not share it with someone? There are times that I need to be alone as well but that time shouldn't be that long. I still believe that no man is an island. We all need someone to share our happiness with. It can be a friend, a lover, a sister or brother.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
8 May 10
True calya,thanks for the sincire advise!!everybody wants some shoulder on which one can really put ones head!