Saying it often OR not that often?

Philippines
May 8, 2010 4:47am CST
Which is better, saying the WORDS often to someone or not? Well, I do want you to guess the WORDS. It's I LOVE YOU. Does it sounds more special if it's told not that often?
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
8 May 10
Prime, a lot choose to hear ''i love you'' a lot of times each day. Once or twice a day should be enough. We know that we are loved, and to tell us is nice and all, but not a 100 times a day. What do you think?? TATA.
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• Philippines
8 May 10
I think you are right my B... to say that twice perhaps enough... just to remind and assure that someone do not forget, hmmmmnnnn!
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
8 May 10
I knew you would see it my way. One cannot forget anothers love. It is not that easy a thing to forget.
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• Philippines
8 May 10
Very good to hear that My B. Yes, it's so hard to forget such! And at this time, I know I could not forget~
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• United States
8 May 10
I don't know. I show my guy that I love him every day. And I try to Say it once a day but I don't know which is most important to him. I'll ask and tell you his answer. For me as long as I Feel he loves me , he doesn't have to say it.
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• United States
9 May 10
I asked and he said he loves Both. It touches his heart when I say I love you. And he loves how I show him I love him. So He loves Both!
• Philippines
15 May 10
He loves both, that is so good sarah... I know that you are both happy... wish you all the luck friend...
• United States
15 May 10
Thanks.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Well, I guess it really depends on how a person says it. Doesn't depend on how often a person says it, but on how he says it.
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• Philippines
8 May 10
I agree friend, but how can we make it if the one is miles away from us?
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@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Hmmm..how about chatting online then having a webcam and a headset so that she could see how much you mean it when you tell her that you love her?
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• Philippines
14 May 10
oh, that sounds perfect friend...
@cream97 (29175)
• United States
8 May 10
Hi, primeeaque86. I think that when these words are said to one another, it sounds very special and true. I love it when my husband tells me that he loves me. It makes me feel like I am all his. I had a boyfriend one time that was so scared to tell me that he loved me. When I would hang up with him when we were on the telephone, I told that him that I loved him. And, when it was his turn to say it back, he stuttered and he could never seem to say the words right. It was like he was tongue twisted. It made me feel that he was being deceptive too. Now my husband of 8 years tells me that he loves me all of the time, with no nervousness.
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@cream97 (29175)
• United States
8 May 10
Don't get me wrong, I once was scared to say these words. But when you really do love someone these words will come straight from the heart with no hindrance.
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• Philippines
14 May 10
Sorry for this very delayed response cream... i like this sharing... I do not know why your boyfriend before could not tell you I love you... Filipino men are different though, once we have a girlfriend, we would not hesitate to say those words... and perhaps the nervousness came from women... but every person is different, we have our won unique way to let our love ones feel they are very special to us... yes I agree, when you really truly love someone, you would never hesitate to say those words to him/her much often...
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
8 May 10
I think love should be in your heart than on having those words on your tongue man.I may not repeat those words thousand times in a day but sure my heart beats for her and a true lover can hear your heart beat and decrypt it too.great day.
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• Philippines
14 May 10
This is great dudee..... yes, that is true! But I guess it's different story when you are far from each other, am I right? I guess you really needed to always say7 those words..... what do you think man?
@neildc (17259)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
8 May 10
this is something that you can feel everyday even when left unsaid. but of course, it will be nice to here it. and it feels better when it is said upon you by your loved ones too.
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• Philippines
14 May 10
yes, it is more powerful when uttered neil...
@cloud31 (5811)
8 May 10
I seldom say that word prime, i don't know why? I just utter that when I really feel Its from deep inside my heart, I can't just say that as an obligation, a lots of complain about this to me before..Nice one!
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• Philippines
14 May 10
There are really people who are like you cloud. And I like the way you comprehend those words, yes, it's not an obligation to utter those... and sometimes, I heard it to other people, and it's sounds ordinary, that makes its meaning not good at all... I guess those words are sacred, it's about true love.
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
8 May 10
I'm not very much of an "I love you" person.. so I don't say it that often. I say a couple of times in a year, only to a few people. But that doesn't mean I only love a few people in my life. I'm just not very vocal about it, I guess I'm not that comfortable saying it too often. I'm better at showing it through actions, gifts and by listening whenever they need to talk. I guess people differ in ways of showing love.
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• Philippines
8 May 10
I got it friend... all of us have unique ways of showing it... and I just like the way you make it.
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@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
9 May 10
Hi Prime. Well for me it depends on how the words were being delivered. When it is being said without sincerity then those words were useless. I'd rather not say it when the words are not coming from my heart. Happy mylotting fried!
• Philippines
15 May 10
aw, now i know, it doesn't matter how often or not often is... the most important is how true it is! And you know, i only tell those words to someone I really love in my life... I miss you friend, it's been a long time we had no interaction here in mylot.... God bless.
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
17 May 10
Yeah, that's how I look at it. How sincere are you upon saying it is what matters to me. That's my own personal opinion towards it, but I don't know how the other female species would think about that words being said. Anyway, I've missed you too. It's been a while since we've last interacted. Hope that you are well. God bless you too.
• Philippines
17 May 10
Hi shello my nice friend... i am sincere everytime I say it, that I am so sure.. and i love the love of my life now shello! And I know she believes me.... every time i tell her that, even we are world apart! And now it's a moment to enjoy talking again, am I right friend?
@SomeCowgirl (32273)
• United States
11 May 10
I think it's even more special every time it's said but the frequency of it just depends on the relationship at hand.
• Philippines
15 May 10
hmmmmmnnnn, perfect friend... now how are you?
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@SomeCowgirl (32273)
• United States
15 May 10
I am doing very well, trying to keep myself busy. I've got a lot of things to do here today on mylot alone. How are you? I noticed you changed your picture, is that you?
• Philippines
16 May 10
That sounds good friend... I am also busy now, but I am still trying to be here as often as I can... yes, this is me, how do you find it then? hehehehe.
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@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
10 May 10
Hi Prime!! I think so too.. I love I love You!!
• Philippines
15 May 10
hahahaha, hi yresh, how are you dear friend? You know I miss our funny talks... Remember you are a smart girl, you should advised me accordingly... oh, how is the election there?
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Hi Prime!! I've been busy for awhile and I haven't been oN Lot as much as I can this weeks.
• Philippines
19 May 10
That's all right smart girl, as long as you always pay visit here even for a little while, i know that all your friends miss you so much because you are just a good friend to us!!!
• Portugal
17 Jul 10
yes if people say it often is so sweet^^ i really like when lovers say it so so many times to each other is so romantic^^ mostly when guys say to girls ahah all girls want a guy like that^^ that makes the person feel important, cared and loved^^ i also like to say that when i love a guy many times^^ is so cute isnt?^^ everyone must do that^^ so their relationship is happier for sure^^
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
very nice friend I like this opinion
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
thanks so muchy^^ you are very sweet too^^ thanks for like my post^^
• United States
8 May 10
I show my guy I love him every day. I say it at least once a day. I have no idea which he prefers . I'll ask and let you know. I Know I don't need the words as long as I Feel the love he has for me.
• United States
8 May 10
Oops. I'm sorry. I thought this post didn't go through. I responded twice! Forgive me.
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• Philippines
14 May 10
Hi sarah, I know this reply is very late... but you know I like you for being honest... now have you ask him?
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• Philippines
19 May 10
It depends on how you show your love to them: either by words or by act. Showing your love to someone by telling them how much you love him/her may be something special to one person, but not to someone else because he/she prefers to show it by doing something that shows how he/she feels.
• Philippines
19 May 10
Now i know that I can only show my love more tru by words... yes because we are apart, but i make sure that my words do as powerful as action!!!! Nice sharing friend... God bless and happy mylotting!!!
• Philippines
9 May 10
in between. saying the words i love you to some is not healthy. just imagine ten years of your life saying it 10 times a day. to have her the feeling of being inlove and attached to you saying i love in the morning when you wake up ang during the night before you go to bed will do.
• Philippines
15 May 10
Thanks friend, yes you have a good point too... but for me, I do not mind if i will say it a hundred times a day... but saying it twice will do too... sometimes saying it too often lessen the power of those 3 words.
@Cutie18f (9564)
• Philippines
8 May 10
It would be sweet to confirm or affirm your love for each other twice a day--in the morning when you wake up and in the evening before you sleep. Why? If you only do this occasionally, saying it in the future would cause you some discomfort. You should say it daily for the phrase to come out easy and naturally.
• Philippines
15 May 10
perfect, nice one friend... yes, those times are the best times to utter those words specially when you are living in the same house... but in my case i do not know what is really the perfect time, perhaps when we are both online... and I say it everytime we chat... I do not know if I have overdone it, but I just love it saying that often because sometimes i am really busy I could have only a very little time to online here... or in the other site we usually exchange talks... nice sharing. God bless.