What is the BEST advice your Mom or Dad ever gave you??

United States
May 8, 2010 5:05am CST
My mother and father are in heaven now but I think of them quite often. And there are several life lesson phrases that they taught me that I try to live by. I know my mom told me to try and find a job you love since you shouldn't just live for the weekends. My dad used to tell me slow and steady wins the race and that applies to many areas of life. I think the BEST advice was a combination of be true to yourself and don't change for anyone and fly your own flag. How about you? What is the best advice you ever got from your Mom or Dad?
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@kiran9 (255)
• India
9 May 10
Hi Tallygirl,I love my parents who are always remind me when ever or wherever you don't afraid of anything,Once we are afraid we can not do any thing.boldness give success or good achievement. when ever I scared about problem I remember my parents automatically boldness will come..
• United States
9 May 10
Being bold is important I think I agree with your parents. Fear can stop us from trying new things, meeting new people etc. Nothing ventured, nothing gained sums it up well I think tho I don't know where that quote comes from, it reminds me of what your parents taught you. My mom was always very protective and I think her fear taught me some fear that I have had to overcome as I got older. Thanks for sharing! Be well!
• Philippines
9 May 10
Since my target is to work abroad and leave my family here in our home country, they told to be independent because i'll be on my own when i get to a foreign country. I have to do things on my own because lets just say that no one's gonna spoon feed me and help me when i get into some kind of trouble. I've always wanted to live alone so i'll know how to live my own life. Nothing's permanent in this world even my parents. Being dependent on them won't get me nowhere. So i guess that's the best advice given by my parents.
• United States
9 May 10
Your parents are rare in encouraging your to travel abroad and away from them. Sounds like they want the best for you and think you might really do well to travel and see other countries. Many parents really want their children to be independent but still to need them for advice from time to time. And yes nothing is permanent which is why we need to try and appreciate what we have that is good when we have it as it may change. Thanks for sharing and good luck with your dreams!!
• India
8 May 10
Parents advise us many things all the time and that is for good. My father used to suggest that if you do not do bad to anyone, definitely there will be good things for you. My mom always says that if you hurt others it will come back to you so never hurt. hurting others is hurting self and you should not hurt you in any way. I try to follow most of the things in my life and have been successful.
• United States
9 May 10
Sound like both your parents were very wise. They gave you great advice for all areas of your life. I believe in Karma too as they did that when you are good, good things happen. Thanks for sharing!!
• India
8 May 10
Every my advice given to me is the best!! Theres so manyy..
@manubla (472)
• Philippines
8 May 10
For me, it is to keep my feet on the ground especially when the time comes that I'm soaring high. Success is nothing if in the process, you forget where you come from and all the values you've learned during your humble beginnings. Another advise is to always show kindness to other people. Life is full of challenges as it is and it doesn't help if you also give everybody a hard time. :)
9 May 10
i thought my dad give me the best advice is "Grasp the nettle and it won't sting you."
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
8 May 10
If you choose a job that you love, you will never work a day in your life. Your Mom was a wise woman! The best advice I ever got from my Mom and Dad was finish school. Secondly, like your Dad saying slow and steady wins the race, my Dad tells me to stop when I am tired, while working hard, otherwise mistake may happen. Lastly another good word of advice is that it is okay to say no. Being true to yourself is definitely a number one! Never conform and fly your own flag is a good way to go, be yourself and enjoy! Thank you for this discussion. Cheers.
• India
8 May 10
my mom and dad worry a lot about me.so they every time keep on giving me advices but most of the times its not right.the best advice so far they have given me is that i should not talk to strangers.i guess that advice is very true.and also the fact that respect your elders.but the best one has to be the stranger one.
@don_naces (464)
• Philippines
8 May 10
The best advice that my parents gave me is "study hard so that you can earn a college degree". Having earned a degree would help you a lot in having a successful life or career. We do not have lots of money so sending me in school is the only thing they can afford for me.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
8 May 10
This is a tough question for me because my parents used to advise me all the time. Let's see... my father once told me that I should strive to be the best that I can be in everything I do and that even if I turn out to be no good at what I'm trying to do, I shouldn't feel too bad because the important thing is that I tried. I think he's right because it's better if you try instead of not trying and then later on thinking of all the things that could have been if you had tried. It's also better to fail knowing that you tried than failing because you didn't try to do your best.
@myzire72 (1154)
• Singapore
8 May 10
Since young, my parents have always stressed to me the importance of looking ahead, in other words, to plan and anticipate. This piece of advice has stuck with me since then. It is really very useful to me, and I am going to pass it down to my kids as well.
• Philippines
8 May 10
The advice that my parents, especially my mom would always remind us, is to never get married without a stable job. I know the essence of what she means and I really appreciate it. There are still other things that she would always tell us. I'm grateful that I have such wonderful, responsible and self-less parents.
@oldchem1 (8132)
8 May 10
Hi Like you my mum and dad have long since passed away, but what I am today I know I owe to them. Do you know that I don't think they ever gave me any actual verbal advice, but what I found was that to follow their shining examples was a really good way to live. I don't think that I could be as selfless as my mother was but I do try, and as for my dad - well there's NO ONE as good as Daddy ever, is there?? Nice question.