how will i break up with someone so good to me?
By neh357
@neh357 (173)
Philippines
May 10, 2010 2:23am CST
i am really geting tired of this relationship. i feel it is not working anymore. i feel that there is no spark anymore. i feel that it is only working because i am very much connected to the family. if feel that i am so locked up, i feel so sorry about what i am feeling, i feel that everytime i talk to him, i lost interest,.
help,, how am i going to break up with someone so good to me? the only reason is i am just getting bored to the relationship, no thrill, no good things happening.,
7 responses
@kenites (337)
• Philippines
11 May 10
I think you are in a hard position here since it is not only him that you have a close relation but also to his family.
Your reason for break up is boredom only.Do you still love him? If you do,did you try talking to him? I think the problem here is communication. Why not tell him what you feel, I am sure he will understand since he loves you.
Tell him that you are bored, tell him what you want, suggest him things to do to save your relation if it can still be save.
If love is already lost then I think its time to move. Talk to him about this, if he really loves you I think he will understand.
@neh357 (173)
• Philippines
11 May 10
Yes dear. It is so hard to tell someone that something is wrong in a relationship when all the people around you expect you to stay in that relationship. I did try talking to him and promises were made. And then broken, it seems like it is a cycle. And all the thing we do were routinary. I dont know if I should reconsider talking to him. Im so confused right now.
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
10 May 10
I also have your problem.I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and even more. I don't feel I will be able with him all my life as I am now from now a bit bored but as I know him so well I am in a way used to him and I don't think I will be able to leave him.I have tried not seeing him but yet when I need something he is the man I first call for help.
@neh357 (173)
• Philippines
11 May 10
I guess the problem with long term relationship is you dont have to find something new to each other. Since all the activities in your life involves the two of you, you have not yet seen the other side of a world where you can meet new people and mingle with them, I can sense that you loved your boyfriend dearly because at the end of the day, you turn into him.. Can you tell me what are your secrets?
@srganesh (6340)
• India
10 May 10
neh357!Who are you talking about?Is it just your boy friend or lover or husband?Boredom can occur in any relationship when you are confined to limited persons in your life.try to expand your circle and you will soon learn how many true relationships you can get and understand true friends and never think of leaving them in the name of boredom.
@neh357 (173)
• Philippines
10 May 10
my boyfriend..i guess you are right, i dont know how to expand my own circle if the circle that i like gets him jealous, i just dont understand why i cant have my old friends, i just dont think he will accept i am still friend with my ex's..is it not right?
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
12 May 10
Don't let this relationship prevent you from starting others.
Talk to him about it. Tell him that you want to date others and if he wants to break up then OK. And if he is willing to keep what the two of you have and also for you to see other people then go to it.
@alocure (370)
• United States
11 May 10
Have you tried discussion with him? i have been in a long term relationship and we may do argue from time to time but we get over it. It's better to discuss because you don't want to be in a relationship were you dont want to be in anymore because it will hard on everyone and especially him. So its best to talk it out let him know how you feel, maybe he will try and draw some spark into the relationship to gain back your interest. hope this help.. and GOOD LUCK!
@mine2008 (107)
• Philippines
12 May 10
just follow your heart but hey take a time to decide maybe you just looking for some new or some exciting. maybe talk about the missing piece of your relation. or maybe just ask for a break i mean a time to think what you really want. if he really love you i am sure he will let you go. what ever it is the best way is to talk and be nicely.^^
@sach143_u (859)
• India
10 May 10
Friend one thing i didn't know that to whom with you want break up? if i know that then i can give you some solid reasons to breakup easily. Reply me soon
