Pro or con an open relationship?

@mokkka (883)
Bulgaria
May 10, 2010 2:25am CST
As we live in a world we meet a lot of people every day and we have many temptations around us it may happen so that we cannot resist to some of them.Do you prefer to have an open relationship and tell your partner everything that happens to you or lie him or her in order to keep your tight relations?
3 responses
• United States
10 May 10
I have not ever been in an open relationship. Looking at how people lie cheat,and steal I think it would be a good thing. I am not saying you have to sleep around because the option is there. But,being open and honest is a good thin to be. it could also save a lot of stress down the line in a relationship. I think people who are cheaters are secretly having their own open one sided relationship. I think if the opportunity came my way with someone I was interested in I would take it. It beats being lied to and cheated on.
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@krischine (270)
• Philippines
10 May 10
Yes, to have a open relationship is a healthy. But not all your past relationship or events that you should tell him, If your bf asked anything about your past just answer it but not elaborate it, so that the guy cannot judge you as what you are in your past. If your bf haven't ask about your ex bf or with your past activities, well don't open that topic it may lead to misunderstanding. You must be both open to each other as what you have right now in present in what you do and your activities. In an open relationship can build the Trust that you two wanted to have with each other.
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• China
10 May 10
Definitely,we have faced many temptation every day.On the one hand, I think couples should be honest to each other.Only in this way,could show your love and your close relationship.But on the other hand, sometimes,we must lie to our beloved in case any misunderstanding occur. This really bothered me once upon. Think it over, you will find out that it is nothing to make some small lies,if that really can make you love each other more. That is my opinion,Enjoy yours.
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