how can i keep a long good relationship?

@alocure (370)
United States
May 10, 2010 2:54pm CST
i really love my girlfriend and i dont want to lose her because for the past few months we have be back and forth good, we argue and we fuss we been together for 9 months now and i know she is the one....so i need help how can i make our relationship stronger?
4 responses
@eahshan (59)
• Bangladesh
10 May 10
hi alocure . The positive things about you that you want to continue the relationship longer that will help you future now make sure that you girlfriend also think so if both of you are positive than make sure that not only both of you love each other but also you both respect one another . trust your partner . make her feel like that she is the only one for you . make her feel that for you she is the most valuable asset . best of luck .
@alocure (370)
• United States
10 May 10
thank you and i will take that into consideration because we have some things we need to work on if we work on them then we would be more connected with each other.
@iGimp01 (188)
10 May 10
Your very welcome. I'm just getting the courage to ask this girl I have known for ages out :O. Kinda nervous…. Anyway I wish you good luck and happy myLotting!
@alocure (370)
• United States
11 May 10
aww dont be nervous just be you she will like you for you no doubt about that...and thanks the same to you. all the best!
• Philippines
11 May 10
Just be honest and true to each other. If there is a problem, make sure that you talked it over before the day end. Its nice to sleep when you dont have any sentiments and grudges against each other. Take time to make each day a special day. Try not to do the usual thing you do together. Think of something that and make it special for the both of you. Try to talk about what are the usual things or reason of arguments. Talked over it and think if it helps you to argue always.
@alocure (370)
• United States
11 May 10
me and my girlfriend always try and talk at least hours before the day ends or else we will never get over it and we will be mad at each other for a day or two but when we do talk about our arguments the same day it happens we move on and try not to repeat it.
@anjel016 (329)
• Philippines
10 May 10
It's kinda hard to respond on this one since we really have no idea regarding both of your personalities and arguments with one another. To be honest, I am almost in the same position as you are. Me and my BF are always in a fight but we always make up after a day or two. And as of now we are on our 32nd monthsary this coming May 16. Yup, more than two years. IMO, the very first thing that you have to do is to know whether your GF is feeling the same way as you are. If she also want your relationship to stay strong and continue. The moment that one of you no longer have that determination and passion to be with one another, that's the end of the story. Even if you give it your all, it'll be useless. But if it's the other way around, there's really hope to make things better. Being a woman, there are some things that us girls would love to have on our BFs. One thing is that, be understanding. If things gets tough, try to be flexible and not be too harsh on her. Even if it's her fault, try to be sweet to her. Know the things she likes and as well as her dislikes. Try to avoid the things that you know that would make both of you mad at each other. But know where to stand when you know that she's taking it too far. Still be a man despite of the situation. Spend as much time as you can with her and make her feel especial always. Those are just some things that are IMO a girl would want. Goodluck!
@alocure (370)
• United States
11 May 10
thank you i will try and keep that in mind because i do give it my all and so do she. we put out for each other we never really did for anybody else in our past relationship i think that one i can say make us stick around to with other more and happy anniversary!
@iGimp01 (188)
10 May 10
as long as you love each other, you are honest to each other and you are really nice to the other person then if you two are meant for each other you stay together, just dont keep anything from her!
@alocure (370)
• United States
10 May 10
thank you becuase she has done so much for me and we treat each other well good we get along great we do fuss but we dont let it get to us we talk about it and let it go. we are always honest with each other as well so hopefully we will be alright... thanks for the advice.