live-in relationship is right or wrong

India
May 15, 2010 6:07am CST
for some people livein relationship is good and for some it is bad,what you think?looking towards new generation discuss your views..
9 responses
@Tangeryne (412)
• India
15 May 10
Hey Parul, I would be all for live-in relationships. The govt of India is looking to legalize it and they themselves state that it is not wrong and not a crime. So why should society look down on it?? Its like two people living together, what's wrong about it if a girl and guy stay together. If two girls stay together, its OK and they aren't termed as lesbians so why can't a girl and guy live together!!! What's the big deal. We live in such a busy world, everyone rushing about to work and all so people won't see much of each other except for maybe weekends so if your in a live-in you get to see more of your partner. Also it helps if in future the couple decides to tie the knot, since they have lived together they know all the good as well as bad sides of their partner so they learn to accept each other as they are and that's a good thing. You get a shot of living as husband and wife- sharing expenses, joys and sorrows which will help to build a strong base once you think of taking it to the next level.
• India
15 May 10
Well what can I say, everything has its pros and cons!!
@kenites (337)
• Philippines
16 May 10
I have nothing against live in relation. I think this is better when you are still not ready for a marriage life. This give both of you a time to know each other more. And if your relation will not work out then at least it is easy to separate than when you are already legally bind.
• India
17 May 10
great thougts :)
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 May 10
I think it's different for every couple. I do think you need to know a person before you move in together. Some people like there own place but still want to be together so it's all good but different for every one.
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
15 May 10
on my own point of views it is not proper because the woman are always the one who is lost on that if they got separated.
• India
21 May 10
i think you are right...womens are always in loss
@ptzkoh (96)
• Philippines
16 May 10
i don't find it wrong with live-in relationship. for sure they are already on legal age and already know what they were doing. they have their own decision. maybe they are just testing if they can make it up. they have to know each other real attitude. you can only know real attitude of someone after you stayed with him in one roof.
@Rysonia (310)
• United States
16 May 10
I suppose live-in relationships would work as long as both partners keep in mind the reason such relationships exist is because the couple has no commitment to each other. To often one or the other in such a couple expect a live-in relationship to be the same as a marriage, it is not. Marriage is offering commitment and the promise of forever. A live-in relationship is only the promise of for as long as it is convenient. Honestly I think another shame in the Modern world is acceptance of such degradations of relationships. They are little more then a joke.
• India
15 May 10
It seems to be right when u are just thinking from human perspective.. where generation and youthfulness is given more importance, But if u have read the Holy Bible once then there will never be such a question arising in your mind. Its wrong.
• Philippines
15 May 10
I think live in relationships are just right. If they can handle the consequences going into one then it's fine with me. But there are people who force themselves to be in a live-in relationship without even knowing the consequences and that's wrong. When going through a decision, I always look for the consequences it comes with. I think those couples planning in a live-in relationship should do the same. It's not just a simple yes or no question that they have to answer. Their answer comes with future problems that they have to face and they should be ready for that to handle such kind of relationship.
• India
15 May 10
Those who are likely to go back on their promises enter into marriage contract. Those who know how to keep their promises, go for live in relationship. They don't need to take any vows or need any witnesses. Those who want to settle their dispute in courts go for marriage ceremony. Those who have no disputes to settle; they go for live in relationship.