How to talk so WOMEN will LISTEN!

Philippines
May 16, 2010 2:18am CST
OKay i guess a lot of people who will read this are guys mostly. Because like me, women know exactly what am about to say here. Men always wonder what is happening inside womens mind that most of the time they end up scratching their head in confusion.You want us to listen? Here's how: 1. Participate in the conversation and DONT wait for your turn to talk. - female brains are wired to both SPEAK and LISTEN, the reason why women seem to all talk at the same time. This is because WE CAN. If you wait for your turn you will just get older! Not actively participating in conversation with us is perceived as lack of interest. 2. Use facial expression while listening. - we female tend to give away our emotions with facial expressions so, as we talk, mirror our expressions and gestures to create rapport. Never do this though to man. 3. Give her personal details and appeal to her emotions. - femail brains are organized for reading the emotions of others and evaluating relationships between people. Reveal to her, personal infomation about yourself and volunteer your personal feelings about things. 4. Use indirect speech - women's spoken sentences are longer than men's and may contain several subjects about her emotions and feelings etc. "Closing the sale" fast wont help. Be more friendly, relaxed and agreeable. I have seperate discussions for women too. How to talk so MEn will Listen. Feel free to read.
1 response
• Philippines
16 May 10
nice advices, always remember that women are emotional people, they wanted romance, and be appreciated. they wanted you to empathize and listen whenever they say something. you have to show interest to what they are saying.