life

United States
May 17, 2010 9:43pm CST
i would love to buy a home and have a kid with my hubby. with the economy the way it is seems crazy to even try for our dreams. just got laid off and he may get some hours cut at work. we have no idea whats in our future. times are real tough. we will have our 4th anniversary in sept. we want at least one kid. i been looking for work but have had no luck. i am trying all sites and networking but still no luck.. how are we suspose to do our dream if we cant even find stable reliable work. well i cant he can though. any advice?
5 responses
• United States
18 May 10
Just don't give up, and have a positive attitude. You'd be surprised how much this can help. I hope things get better for you!
• United States
18 May 10
With times the way they are, all too many people are out looking for work. I am lucky that I even have a job, even though it is not a very good one. Sometimes you have to take whatever you can get, even though it may be a menial job. Don't give up on your dreams, even though you may have to postpone them for awhile. The biggest mistake you could make would be to get in debt over your head. Be happy with what you have for now, and work hard to attain those dreams.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Hello firebirdlizant! Life was just like that. We'll never really know what's in store for us. Continue praying hard and allow your self to seek for more opportunities and never ever give up in finding whats really in store for you and your hubby. Life was tough sometimes but never ever lose your hope and your faith that one day, you will have a good job or business of your own that could support you and your family. Being resourceful will be a great help in finding descent, reliable job. Ask your friends for possible opening in their company, read a lot and search on line for vacancy in different companies that suits your qualifications, and above all, Ask for God's guidance and help before everything. Good luck and all the best!
@celticeagle (117209)
• Boise, Idaho
18 May 10
Looking for work is just like a job. You get out there early and pound the pavement.You keep on managers and let them know you want the job and are willing to work the needed hours. I have never had trouble finding a job. You have to be open to change and looking for different types of work than you might be used to doing. You also have to be determined and disciplined. I would do the online stuff in the evenings and be out looking during the day. Managers are usually in the office early checking out the situation for the day. I would also be thinking of ways to make money other than jobs atleast for awhile. Like starting a small business. Cleaning, landscaping, data entry, that sort of thing. What ever is needed in your area.
@dependent (131)
• China
18 May 10
keep the positive mind believe nothing is impossible and u r desperately need a job so donot care what the job it is even u feel the job is less paid or losing face never care that and u should do ur job step by step hmm as for kid, if u donot want to increase the burden u should forget that idea