Do you expect anything from your partner,then what?

@sagar21 (1583)
India
May 17, 2010 10:56pm CST
Relationships,as we know are strengthened by faith..ie. trust.. but when we begin to have a relation with another we often fail to disclose what we expect...because we think it is not fair...but this usually creates a problem in later life...whenever we see/hear/do something unexpected by/to your partner.. fail to cope and conflicts occurs...often you will tell(surely) at this point to your partner [b]"I didn't expect this from you!!" "I married you because,I thought you were......(yadada)"[/b] So why make such vicious cycles happen in your life? Be honest with your partner and yourself about your feelings/expectations,from the beginning itself... Still it is not too late... So myLotter's what do you expect from your partner? All responses are welcomed...
4 responses
• Philippines
18 May 10
If i'm going to have a serious relationship with someone, i expect her to be willing to adjust as much as i do. And i expect to hear her decisions, not only mine. I also expect her to talk in case we're in the middle of an argument cuz i'm not a mind reader. I won't know her problem or opinion if she doesn't speak her mind.
• China
18 May 10
Be honest to your partner is crucial. Open your heart, tell your feeling about anything, making comfortable conversation are all helpful. But some white lies are also needed. Some bad hurting feeling should not be said out.
@med889 (5958)
18 May 10
I do not expect anything from him because simply I do not want to be living in a dream sometimes. If I expect something and he is not good at it then obviously I will feel hurt and then this will torture me so better to do not expect anything from him, it is solely on him to give and to show his love and care toward me which he is doing perfectly though.
• Philippines
18 May 10
hi sagar21 (93) i think love and trust is enough for me.. have a nice day zedrick_11