Is money a MUST in courting?
By eil_noz
@eil_noz (963)
Philippines
May 18, 2010 9:34am CST
Well, It's not really my problem since girls aren't the one's who should be doing it but I just want to help my friend.
He said that he has regretted courting a lot of girls but in return not being able to make them his girlfriend and he had a big problem regarding his finances now because he's so gallant that even if they weren't his girlfriends yet. He always make sure that he gave the best for them.
And since he asked for an advice I just told him that he shouldn't spend a lot of money for courting because not all girls would love a guy for being gallant. But as I think deeper I started to question it myself. Is money a must in courting?
So what can you say about my advice to my friend and what can you say about it?
2 responses
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Yes you will need money of course but not that much. Lots of patience, effort and understanding are what a guy really needs in courting. If you can treat a girl then go but not too much because just like what happened to your friend you are really not sure if the girl will be his girlfriend. Girls after all are not after your money. Right girls? :D
@eil_noz (963)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Right! that's exactly what I said to my friend.
Don't you think that it's more romantic to have a date
that is inexpensive like star gazing, hiking,
jogging together something like enjoying each others
company well, I guess not all was not like me who prefer simple dates.
@n_m_crutchfield (46)
• United States
17 Aug 10
True courting does not involve tons of money, its is all about intention. Any one can go out and by the world for you but at the end of the day they still do not have your best interest at heart.
Someone that is really trying to court you will tune into the small things that make you happy.And if what makes you ( collective "you", not "you" personally) happy is money, then your intentions are all wrong.
