friendship or love?

Philippines
May 19, 2010 4:37am CST
I said i will forget him, i told myself that i will keep myself busy and never think of him. i said that i will find ways to avoid talking to him. BUT the moment i saw him lonely, i ended up comforting him. i still chose to be his friend. maybe, maybe, i am inlove with him. i always ended up choosing "him" instead of choosing "me".
7 responses
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
19 May 10
Yes exactly you are really in love and if you have a feeling of it that is really hard to control it especially when you see him so lonely that you want to give your comfort to him. It is upon your decision if you feel to have commitments with him or just be friends. For now I think you must be friend for him since you seem that you are not yet ready for serious relationship.
• Pasay, Philippines
15 Jun 10
Thanks for choosing my post as the best response :)
19 May 10
sorry but what is your question :S
• Philippines
19 May 10
oh i'm sorry for confusing you, my bad. i think i should change the title of my topic. my question is: what will you choose "him" or "you"?
@hanizah (255)
19 May 10
When you love someone that usually happens.so for me you can choose love
@med889 (5941)
19 May 10
If you feel something for him then go tell him instead of hiding your emotions for him because this is the right thing to do, to make him aware that your love for him is genuine and sincere. This is love iamcrista.
@zhangxia (87)
• China
19 May 10
just follow the intuition .if you really love him .don't against yourself ,just love him .
@Asthazar (103)
• Romania
19 May 10
This is quite a complex matter... people normally get addicted to other people, after a period of time spent with them. No matter how much you put your mind to forgetting someone you used to love, you simply can not, and if the attraction was near fatal, you won't be able to keep away from them either. There are cases where one would beat the other up daily, yet the other would still lay still next to his/her loved one; that's how powerful attraction can be. To overcome something like this, you need a very powerful will.
@patersh (120)
• Philippines
19 May 10
i prefer friendship... well, not unless..if you know he is inlove with you. but if his inlove with someone else. just treasure your friendship. maybe if you will be close to him, be a very good friend, he might fall for you.