What Do You Feel When You Are Blamed For Something You Didn't Do...??

@sagar21 (1583)
India
May 21, 2010 4:17am CST
It's for sure everyone has faced this situation... I've dealt this many times ,at such occasion I can't help myself from moaning...and try to mitigate it by crying out loud when in solitude... Some times we can prove our innocence but often it fails if the accuser is cold-hear ted... How Do You Feel? Give Me Some Tips To Deal Such Situation.. Expecting All Responses.... Happy myLotting...... Have a nice day/night.....
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14 responses
• United States
22 May 10
It would feel like hell like want to pull out a tree from the ground.! I do have experienced such thing but I did proved that I was innocent. It was really hard to defend yourself. if the accuser is cold-hear ted the you need a lawyer for it. a family or few friends to back you up. don't play it by yourself. you won't win!
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• Mexico
22 May 10
Hi inday lorna: In some cases people need to find a lawyer, if things are really bad. Even with that I'd feel really angry with this person even if he/she was not planning to do anything bad, for not hearing me and also for destroying my reputation. That's simply not ok. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. ALVARO
• Philippines
22 May 10
I do not just sit down and be blamed for doing something i did not do. i voice out my opinion. I show them the proof. I do not care if they believe in or not but I am sure deep in myself that I am innocent and I can defend myself. If it leads to fight I do not care, I just do not tolerate people accusing me on things I did not do.It happens to me many times. Even in gradeschool, that was the first. Eventhough I will look like a liar, if I did not do it I did not do it. Anyway if you are lying it will shown on your face clearly. And I was proven right always.
@sagar21 (1583)
• India
22 May 10
yeah its,someone even told me that "Liar,it's written all over my face" when I tried to justify myself..When I gets worried,I gets hyper tensed and my face often gets dull..giving a feeling that I'm lying.....
@dawnald (83885)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 May 10
Sometimes the other person's mind is made up and there is nothing you can say or do to change their mind. That is very hard to accept. But I just present my facts and hope that they will convince. And if they don't, I try to accept that some battles can't be won.
@sagar21 (1583)
• India
22 May 10
yeah I agree with you dawnald
• Mexico
22 May 10
Hi sagar: When I'm on this situation I feel angry with this person because he/she haven't talked to me and just blame it. This would make me not to talk with this person for a while and I'll always tell my story about what really happends. Maybe I don't do the best thing but I feel that if a person blame without even hearing me, then it's his/ her fault not mine and I won't try to talk with this person that has hurt my feelings. Thanks for asking us this question. Have a nice day. ALVARO
@jamed28 (1911)
• Philippines
22 May 10
I feel very angry of course. I never blame anyone that I don't have enough evidence, then while would they blame me for something I never do.
• Philippines
21 May 10
true..i've been to this situation million times..haha i try to make a good impression to others after the incident..and try to talk to them for blaming me for something i didn't do.. it makes me feel bad ofcourse..it's like they're slowing eating up my reputation..haha just remember that god is there..he knows the truth more than anybody.. :)
• Philippines
21 May 10
Of course, i would feel very bad. Nobody wants to be blamed of something that he/she didn't do. I really hate it. I think the best thing to do is just ignore it. You know that you didn't do it and you are true to yourself. I hate those people who accused without any proofs.
@sender621 (14971)
• United States
21 May 10
I get very frustrated when i get blamed for something i didn't do. People want to believe you are guilty. You get tired of having to prove your innocence to them. Nobody likes to be accused of something. Not being believed is even worse.
@Yori88 (1469)
• Philippines
21 May 10
I will feel sad but I will definitely help myself and fight for what is right. I won't let anyone blame me for something I did not do. It is not fair for other people to just blame. Instead they should seek for the truth and find evidence in order to know what really happened and to find who is really at fault. But blaming should only be secondary because the top priority should be finding solution and solving the problem.
@vnrsudhan (1514)
• India
21 May 10
hi sagar, Ya,everyone probably has had that situation,and me,i'm like you too,i have had too many of it,and it has only made me numb.I don't really care,if i'm blamed for nothing,if i fail to prove my innocence,i'll just ignore the person and their comment,because i know that i'm nothing like that,and i'm true to myself.
@redhotpogo (3935)
• United States
21 May 10
This happens to me alot. I tell them I didn't do it, but they just keep saying I did it. I feel hurt, like why would they blame it on me? What is it about me that they think that I would do that? I explain to them very clearly that I didn't do what they are accusing me of, and why I wouldn't have done it, but they keep on saying "You did it." Then I start to get upset, and I tell them "Just because you say I did it, doesn't mean I did it." Before I've just agreed with them. I'm like ok I did it. And then they ask why I did it. I'm tell them "I don't know you said I did it, so maybe you know why I did it." I don't really have any advice for you to get out of that situation. If you figure it out let me know.
@jc92619 (116)
21 May 10
If u knw u havent done it then y u worry??..Law and justice is what u shud look for, then. Few things to have a check bout d matter is - Proofs and eveidences, as long as there is none, no worries at all. If ther are proofs, even then ur on d legal side, as long as u knw u havent done it, cuz then u shud have a sharp eye towards the game that is being played in case it affects u or ur belongings, if ur being blamed by some ppl who have evil intentions, then u wud want to try to do some spywork and cunning games.To make it short, study the whole scenario and the matter, to have more say or response whn ur blamed.
@LotRowena (159)
• Philippines
21 May 10
Of course I will feel sad if someone blames me for something i did not do. And I will not just sit in the corner. I will have to do something to prove to him that I am not responsible for any of his accusations and that he needs to issue a public apology or something to retract his false accusations. It is my integrity as a person that he's messing up with and he should know better than that. He must realize how will he feels if I did the same thing with him.
@rosie230 (1674)
21 May 10
These days whenever I have been blamed for something that was nothing to do with me I generally just let people believe what they want to... it seems easier than to fight and try and prove my innocence... normally in this situation unless there is proof, people will generally believe what they want to believe, regardless of what you do or say, and above all it is so frustrating.