What if your lover leave you for another?

Mauritius
May 22, 2010 2:14am CST
I have always bad luck in the field of love. Recently I got a new boyfriend whom I love very much. We were very close for 5 months. Now he has stopped talking to me. I don't know the reason. But I am sure he has got another person in his life. I doubt him, he is not sincere to me....what can I do?
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12 responses
@swn_chik (266)
• India
27 Jul 10
I'm so sorry to hear this but don't loose hope.Its not necessary that he be the person you can live with forever,may be he is not the right person for you.You 'll fall in love with lot more guys until you 'll find your Mr.right.So cheer up..
• South Korea
25 May 10
Life is like that... i know it hurts but... everybody deserves someone better... even you..so just try to move on..hang out with friends and try to meet other people and keep yourself busy while moving on... make over will help you to... try to change your hair style, and experiment with the dress... and if he will come back again.... think about those days were you have to sleep alone, and cried when you miss him...
@dloveli (4369)
• United States
23 May 10
Velentina Im soooo sorry you are going thru this sweetie but you cant be second to anyone. You dont deserve that! Why should you have to sacrifice? All you did was love someone. I know for a fact that its hard. Its not fair. He should be ashamed of himself. You are a good girl just to be with him still. He doesnt deserve you! Please think about this carefully? If he doesnt respect you or love you enough to make you his only, then move on. There are plenty of men who would love you for you. ONLY YOU! If you would like to talk privately, send me a message. dl
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
23 May 10
For me It is the time that you need to choose very much in love because if you develop to your love it is hurt very much so wait for the time your love come in to your life not for now but it is soon.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
23 May 10
i guess i will grab a mirror and look for my self. i will go to hair stylist and make up my face and he will see that there are still someone who wants me as their partner.
@Renhard (3480)
• Jamaica
23 May 10
I have a reason to that. One simple answer. He never love you in the first place, maybe he liked you but not love. Maybe he had the girl of his dream that he never got over and then he finally get her back. You will soon realize that you were just a place holder until he find his right lover. I know sometimes it so hard to believe even when he PRETENDED to show you so much love. So much love that caught your eyes. But that was nothing in his eyes. I believe this break up happened for the best. You will soon find someone that truly loves you. If you like my response please rate it as best response. Hope you find that special one soon.
@jasmeena (850)
• Indonesia
23 May 10
It means that he is not good for you. GOD knows better. You must thank GOD for not having him as your spouse.I am still single despite my age (33), well, sometimes people say I am picky.I a not looking for the perfect guy as I am far from perfect, but I am looking for someone whom I love, who loves me and is ready to commit.
@rhinarea (311)
22 May 10
You know what valentina it's hard to be in your situation, your boyfriend just ignore you just like that. Thats very selfish of him, but you can't do anything about it. What you have to do is forget him move on and let the karma work. Time will come and you will find another person who is worthy of your love and who will be there for you and wont leave you no matter what.
• Philippines
22 May 10
Hello Velentina, You are not unlucky in love,you just haven't found the right guy yet.Always be positive when you are in a relationship.It is alright to love someone too much but one thing is you have to make sure to keep/leave something for yourself.Try to recall your previous relationship & see what's wrong with it.Is it you? or ex BFs? If you think ,it is your fault then you need to find ways to improve so that the next relationship will work & not to commit the same mistakes & if the fault is with your Exs then it means it is not your match yet and if they left you for someone else,then it's not your lost,it's your bf. Always remember that every person born in this world is meant to be with someone he/she is destined to.No need to look for it,it will come to you once when you least expect it.Have a great day ! A big smile for you to cheer you up...
@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
22 May 10
It hurts when someone you really love doesn't love you anymore, specially when you don't know the reason why he left. But, you must think positive. Just think that he's not the right one for you and God has someone for you out there. Just wait and he'll come.
@annierose (17243)
• Philippines
22 May 10
Relationship is not a bed of roses. It has its up and down. Lovers experience not only happiness but also sadness, failures, heartaches and the like. Are you sure that your bf has another girl? There are many reasons why a guy won't talk with his gf. It can be because he is sick, has a problem, busy, or have another. However, if you really love your bf, you must not judge him easily. Give him time to explain his side.You should talk with one another. Having an open communication will alleviate the problems both of you are facing. Remember that for love to succeed, there must always be respect, open communication, and trust with each other. Once doubt get a place on both of you, love will surely fail. However, if you discovered that what your instinct tells you is true, then you should make a move.If one of you is no longer happy with the relationship, then I guess letting go is one way. Although letting go hurts so much, but if you won't let go, the pain will be deeper.I believe that if you and your bf is really meant for each other, no matter how many times you separated with each other, at the end, it will still be you and him.
• Indonesia
22 May 10
you can try to search him and ask for the reason, if he keeps running away then it means he really have another person and u can forget about him, it means he is not the perfect one for you, it is better he leaves you now rather than he leaves you after the marriage.