The reason to love and the reason to hate
By indraaaa
@indraaaa (52)
Indonesia
May 22, 2010 12:35pm CST
Not long ago, I asked my girlfriend, what's the reason for her to love me. And she had no answer. She had no reason to love me.. And my thoughts was, if she had no reason to love me, then someday, she may hate me for no reason. I actually afraid to write that down, and i hope I'm wrong. but, what do you think? am I right or wrong?
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5 responses
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
22 May 10
Personally, I think if you can find a reason to love, then it's not love.Like: I love her because she's tall and pretty, I love him because he's the best football player in town and all chicks admire him.When you really love someone, you can't explain what it is.It feels good to be together and you don't need an explanation.
Hate of a woman isn't always hate.Especially your own woman.These dark clouds may mean lack of attention, tenderness, compliments.I think these are things that make women melt.Use them as often as you can.
@indraaaa (52)
• Indonesia
22 May 10
Yes you right friend, I agree. I cannot say I love her because she is beautiful, bla bla. the fact is, there is more beautiful girl out there but I don't love that girl. I think she don't need my explanation, neither do I. well thanks for your kind advise.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
23 May 10
sometimes people find it difficult to disclose the reasons for loving someone. There is something that is sometimes difficult to be expressed in words. I find it fair if your girlfriend can not say the reason he loves you. Maybe there is something about yourself that makes it interested but can not be disclosed.
@cbjones (1147)
• United States
22 May 10
Love and hate aren't that far apart from each other on the big scale of emotions. Both are difficult emotions to explain, and the reasoning behind either is just as much of a mystery as what happened to Amelia Earhart.
Maybe shes unable to come up with a particular reason for loving you. Sometimes it's better to just go with it, instead of looking for an explanation for everything.
@indraaaa (52)
• Indonesia
22 May 10
Thanks for dropping by my friend. I think perhaps she just can't express it well. I believe there is a thing that can make her love me, something that attracting to her. and if you asked me why I love her, it happens to me as well. there is something on her that attract me, and i can't explain what it is.
@Jaluke (676)
• United States
22 May 10
I don't know that it's necessarily a logical thought progression, but I can see how it might creep up on you. Personally, I believe that you are unable to ACTUALLY hate someone unless you have loved that person first or they have seriously harmed someone you actually do love. I doubt since you're still dating that you have to worry about her hating you at the moment.
