A Beautiful Girl With One Arm

United States
May 23, 2010 6:52am CST
I was on Facebook and I saw this girl's picture on the side where it says "People You Might Know" or whatever it says. She was really pretty so I just clicked on the picture out of curiosity. So I was reading her profile information and she was saying that she only had one arm and it went on to say that she gets rejected by guys a lot. It kind of shocked me because this girl was gorgeous. I know that no one is perfect, but would you turn someone down just because they only had one arm?
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15 responses
• Ghana
23 May 10
Well I wouldn't be able to do that to someone because they are disabled. Never. My conscience will never let me do that. If you like someone then regardless of how the person is you still like the person. It should make no difference.
• Lithuania
24 May 10
thest goes to show how stupid people are these days. Thest becouse a person has 1 arm they reject her.... Awful
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
24 May 10
HEllo there shortyakbar! I think people really judge one person in the beginning by just taking a look with his or her physical appearance. But really, it should not be that way. Character and personality of a person are more important than his or her physical beauty because as we all know, our looks will fade out but the beauty of our innermost attitude will always last... With the case of this gorgeous girl, its better if those guys would know her first before rejecting her at once. Have a nice day!
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
24 May 10
I would certainly not reject someone because of being handicapped. I might reject a handicapped guy if he turns out to have attitude problems or if I just don't feel anything for him. Those guys who turned this girl down because she has only one arm are really stupid, and I think she's better off without them.
• China
24 May 10
People always feels much sympathy for the disabled,and also can't help admiring them.Love is a feeling between two people,and it's affected by the appearance.So,turn someone down just bacause their deformity is not a rare thing. Maybe i will turn someone down just bacause their deformity.
• Philippines
24 May 10
So sad, nobody is perfect.
• India
24 May 10
no ii would not if she has the purest of heart as the hand can pe made artificial but the heart can't be changed.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
24 May 10
That's sad, for her to get rejected by many guys. Physical limitations.. are just like material stuffs.. I see it that way. If you are poor, people avoid being friends with you, close to you even. That's a sad situation. Same like her situation too. I think guys should get to know her on a deeper level before making a conclusion just because she has one arm. If it's love, then nothing should stop.. it's like looking down at God's creation in a way.
• United States
24 May 10
It's petty really. No different than guys turning me down because I'm heavy and not "easy" nor was I into underage drinking ect. We all find someone one day, the hard part is the wait.
@med889 (5941)
23 May 10
If ever my boyfriend had only one arm I would still be with him and even if he would be dying the next day I would still be next to him because I love him and I know he would do the same for me, unlike appearances I like a boy's attitudes, intelligence, understanding so beauty comes the last in my list. I know the girl will get someone who will love her a lot in her life.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
23 May 10
Well i have to e honest on this one. If i had been with this girl before her arm was lost then i would definitely e with her when her arm is lost. but if not i would also reject because in life i don't want any restrictions if i can avoid it. I'm not being mean. I am just talking how i feel and i don't want you to get me wrong here. If you can avoid something in life i would. But if i truly love her then i would still accept her in my life
• India
23 May 10
Even It shockked me also.I don't think that a guy will reject a girl because she is having one arm. For me, I will the beauty of Heart. If she is very good by nature then it doesn't matter wether she is not having one arm or leg.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
24 May 10
Hi shortyakbar, there are people in this world, they will be so beautiful but they will have some physical defects. Once we gone to see a girl for my brother in law, she is so beautiful but she has leg problem, one leg is short. If she stand we will not make out but while walking we can notice. She did her Graduation and she do painting also. I liked her, talking, respect, the way she is, but my mother in law didn't liked her because she is physically handicapped. My brother in law got married with some other girl and they separated coz some problems in between them. So, now every one feeling in my house we w'd have choose that girl (physical handicapped girl). Every one will see the only outside beauty but not the inside beauty i couldn't understand.!!!!!!
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
24 May 10
A lot of us got turn down in our lives, maybe one time or another but that does not really matter. Rejection is part of life, and whether a person is almost perfect or lacks a lot in life, there will come a time that he/she will get rejected. That's reality but we should not give up when we got rejected, in fact we must be braver and more courageous to face life even more. When we get rejected that only meant there's something better out there for us.
@hanna811 (132)
• China
24 May 10
loving a girl not only because her body or face ,if you love someone,then you shuld love her everything.nobody is perfect ,she does want to be healthy girl but she can do nothing.if those boys turn her down many times ,they are not worthy to be loved also .i am sure there is must be a right man who is waiting for her somewhere.
• Philippines
23 May 10
This is something new. I haven't been asked this question. Well, it depends. If I develop my feelings towards someone then it's pretty hard for me to turn her down. But I certainly know that I won't turn someone down because she's disabled.