lovers drinking pastime

@rhinarea (311)
May 24, 2010 6:55am CST
My boyfriend had been drinking for couple of days now, and i don't like the idea that he has been drinking with friends. if you were in my situation what will you do?
8 responses
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
24 May 10
I would be very honest with him and tell him straight to the point what I do not like about his drinking with friends. I would communicate my point in the best way I can in order not to hurt his feelings (right..), and maybe if he really can't give it up, I guess I'll have to break up with him...But of course, you don't have to do as I would. :D
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@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
28 May 10
Well I would suggest you talk to him about drinking with you at home, that is if you drink. or you ask him the reason he is doing that and make things work out.
@mine2008 (108)
• Philippines
26 May 10
well i think you have a problem why don't you ask him to talk about or try to contact his friend to ask or advise if he have a problem. you can fix that to find the cost of the problem
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
26 May 10
of course i will tell my boyfriend not to drink any more, because I do not like.
@karen1969 (1788)
24 May 10
I wouldn't be happy with that situation either. Maybe you could ring him and talk to him, explain that it makes you feel upset, etc.? Hopefully he will listen to your feelings. Maybe you could agree he goes out with his friends just once a week or once a month or something?
@dependent (131)
• China
24 May 10
try to communicate with him , get the cause why he is addicted to drink is there something bothering him ? no matter what happend,u should let him know u r sided with him,u share the feeling he has,and u will always back up him forever if he cannot make up his mind to give up,u can ask him,which is more attractive?drinking or me?
• United States
24 May 10
Does he normally drink? I would ask the fundamental question of why he feels the need to go drinking. It may be simply he wants to out with friends that he hasn't been with for a while. It may be way more complicated. I would take the direct approach and ask him without judging. What I mean is be careful how you ask, if he feels like you are nagging he might get defensive and not answer you. It's not always about what you ask but how you ask it and honesty is the best thing. Good luck!!
@babyanna (1217)
• China
24 May 10
Well,I think there might be something bothering him that makes him wanna drink.Talk with him and ask if he has any problems.If there aren't,maybe it is a good idea for you to make the point clear that you don't like him drinking for a couple of days with his friends.If he really cares about you,I think he would listen. Have a nice day!