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I would be very honest with him and tell him straight to the point what I do not like about his drinking with friends. I would communicate my point in the best way I can in order not to hurt his feelings (right..), and maybe if he really can't give it up, I guess I'll have to break up with him...But of course, you don't have to do as I would. :D

Well I would suggest you talk to him about drinking with you at home, that is if you drink. or you ask him the reason he is doing that and make things work out.

of course i will tell my boyfriend not to drink any more, because I do not like.

try to communicate with him , get the cause why he is addicted to drink is there something bothering him ? no matter what happend,u should let him know u r sided with him,u share the feeling he has,and u will always back up him forever if he cannot make up his mind to give up,u can ask him,which is more attractive?drinking or me?

well i think you have a problem why don't you ask him to talk about or try to contact his friend to ask or advise if he have a problem. you can fix that to find the cost of the problem

I wouldn't be happy with that situation either. Maybe you could ring him and talk to him, explain that it makes you feel upset, etc.? Hopefully he will listen to your feelings. Maybe you could agree he goes out with his friends just once a week or once a month or something?

Does he normally drink? I would ask the fundamental question of why he feels the need to go drinking. It may be simply he wants to out with friends that he hasn't been with for a while. It may be way more complicated. I would take the direct approach and ask him without judging. What I mean is be careful how you ask, if he feels like you are nagging he might get defensive and not answer you. It's not always about what you ask but how you ask it and honesty is the best thing. Good luck!!

Well,I think there might be something bothering him that makes him wanna drink.Talk with him and ask if he has any problems.If there aren't,maybe it is a good idea for you to make the point clear that you don't like him drinking for a couple of days with his friends.If he really cares about you,I think he would listen. Have a nice day!