Stop worrying about what has already taken place ...

Malaysia
May 25, 2010 4:31am CST
thats what my 'horoscope' says today ... it was just timely, the whole week i was being depressed over and over again about all the wrong 'path' that i took over the years ... But what can i do worrying about this things ... its past, nothing can be done ... we can just move on making sure the next path or direction we take will not cause that much pain in my future So guys do you worry over your past ... Stop now as it will bring our spirit down ... cheers
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17 responses
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
25 May 10
You are right friend... did you watched Little children anyway? That's a very good movie that would encourage us to never dwell in our past and start a better today... and it says that we can always change the past, not literally means we can change what had happened, but in a way that we can change our life now and can make some better difference from our past.... and it says further that our future is a different story and it has to start somewhere where a good foundation is present.... we should learned some lesson from our past, from the wrong paths, and make them our guides to making our future brighter !!!!! God bless,
• Malaysia
25 May 10
i like the word foundation that you used ... but i will rephrase that.. MY PAST MAKES ME SET A GOOD FOUNDATION FOR MY FUTURE how is that cheers
• Philippines
25 May 10
it's sound better though, good job friend... and you know it doesn't make difference with mine... but your version is much comprehend-able, because one can only start a better future when one can sees a better foundation to start pacing for a new way.. a better way!!!! God bless.
@xubang (2)
• China
7 Aug 10
yes,we do not have yo worry about what has happened ,we can do is learn.hower,this concern may be caused by your personality
@biggerb (2024)
• India
5 Jul 10
Yes, I am glad that you got it right.I truly appreciate your spirit,'Stop worrying about what has already taken place'.Let go of the past.You should not suffer the past.You shold be able to wear it like a loose garment, take it off and let it drop'.Life is'nt about waiting for the storm to pass.Its about learning to dnace in the rain.You can't change the past but you will be ruining the present by worrying about it.No one can go back and change a bad begining but anyone can start now and create a successful ending.God Bless!!
@daliaj (5674)
• India
26 May 10
It is very true. There is no point in worrying about things that already happened and things that are out of our control. But, we won't think about this realilty when we are in agony and feel about the issues. It will take some time to understand that. The whole last month I was worried about my visa getting delayed. I knew that I couldn't do anything in that regard, but I just kept worrying. Now, things happened to work out and I am happy.
• Philippines
26 May 10
Yes, that is why it is called past. It can never be your future and it is not also your present. If a person still lives in his/her past he or she will never see hi/her future. Anyway, why still worry on past when you closed it already??? Not unless your past is hunting you or you are not yet closing your door that is why, there is still a portal. But for me, i can say that let go of the past, live your dreams with what is in your hands and plan what is ahead, that is your future.
@shinxna (36)
• Philippines
26 May 10
Yes! the past is past! We should draw a line between our past and our future. We should never let our past ruin what is ahead us. Go on with life and be happy always!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
25 May 10
Nope never worried about passed just went on to improve my way of thinking and doing things so all would turn out better. and I do beleive it has worked good for me!
• India
25 May 10
I always think about my past. I am like you, some days I am very depressed over not only the wrong paths which I had taken, I also think about the turnings which I had taken in the wrong path.Everybody takes the wrong path atleast once or twice in a life time.Even this wrong path can become the right path, if we take things in the right spirit.. The problem starts, when we take the wrong turns, in the wrong path, and then the whole world, turns topsy turvy. Sanjana, what we think is a right path today, might be a wrong path after, 20 to 30 years, so the pain will be always there.
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
25 May 10
If it wasn't for the past then we couldn't say we lived a life at all. You're right and so is your horoscope.. don't worry about your past and the things you've already done because you can't change that but what you can change is right now.. yes the present in order to fix your future. Take care
@greenace (123)
• Philippines
25 May 10
life is what you make it..if you want to be happy then think of happy thoughts..no one and nothing (not then and there nor the here and now) will affect you and your happiness unless you'd permit it...past is past..don't dwell on it, especially if it's something that affected you in a negative way then..just think of the positive things you've learned from that event..look at the past as something that created your happiness today or will create a better future for you..i think that would make you feel better.
@GemmaR (8517)
25 May 10
I worry about the past an awful lot. Sometimes, I will be sat somewhere and I will suddenly think about something in the past that caused me to feel guilty or embarrassed.. and I will get the whole feeling all over again! I know that I probably shouldn't worry about these things quite so much, because it isn't healthy, but I honestly can't help it. I don't think any of my friends do the same, so I sometimes feel a little bit alone with it really!
• Philippines
26 May 10
as for me, i don't believed in horoscope.. we are the one who carrying our selves, we are the one who make our decision to be right or wrong.. if we failed its our faults and not the others.. what we have is to ask guidance from above to give us open-mind and strength for the things surrounds us.. for the trials that we faced and for every trouble we encountered..
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
25 May 10
yeah,sometimes I can't stop worrying about what I've done wrong..I always think about it and it stresses me out. Because I know I can't undo it. I even say to myself that thinking about it won't make things better so I just have to make up for the wrong things that I've done...but then I worry about it again...I'm just so...?
@charylady (419)
• Philippines
25 May 10
what is past is over, there's nothing we can do to change it. what we can do is to learn from it and move on.
@annierose (19267)
• Philippines
25 May 10
If we will analyze deeply, worrying does more harm on us. It doesn't give any advantage to a person. When we are always worried about our past, we just spoil our day. We are brooding over on the things that cannot be return to us back. This reminds us of the saying that "do not cry over a spilled milk." Whatever happened in the past cannot be change. Past is past as what they always say. What must we learn is to accept that certain things happen on us because of a reason. If we did mistake on our past, it just remind us that we are just only human. We are not perfect. Mistakes in the past serves as a lesson for us to inculcate on our mind. As long as we are not learning from our mistakes in the past, history will always repeat itself. What is the best thing to do is to reflect every now and then. Change whatever things or attitude that must be change. Instead of brooding over on things that won't be changed anymore, what must we do is to give our best in the present. We must always try to be a better person. In life, it doesn't matter if you do things 100% better, what matter is that you do 100 things 1% better. Always give what is the best on the present for our present will determine the future that lies ahead.
@med889 (5941)
25 May 10
This is truly said because once something has already happened we cannot do anything else so better let it be like that. I do not quite believe in Horoscope though because it may be telling for someone else.
@rosie230 (1696)
25 May 10
Yeah I do worry about things that happened in my past... but I don't think it is healthy and it can stop you from moving forward with your life... I actually prefer to take each day as it comes, and just get on with anything that life throws at me.