Making things work

Philippines
May 25, 2010 9:08am CST
I've been in and out for a relationship for 4 times now. Every time relationships end you feel so much pain and sometimes i just don't want to feel that pain anymore. But still i enter relationships head-on no holding back and always trusting my partner with my life. How do you handle relationships with someone you really love? do you love them like your life depended on him/her?
4 responses
• India
26 May 10
The best way to be away from pain is to maintain a single relationship and do not try changing your status. If you really love someone, its love that will handle everything on your behalf.
• Philippines
26 May 10
I think i still have my part in every relationship not only with love but also friendship :D
• India
27 May 10
that is very good :)
• Philippines
26 May 10
I have had a few relationships myself. Some of them just really didn't work out. I must say though that the intensity of love I had shared with in a relationship seem to differ as I grew older. It doesn't mean though that I wasn't deeply involved. Believe me when I say that loving someone dearly and deeply is still the best thing one could do. Some of it may work, some may not. But the important thing that I've discovered is that I learn from my mistakes and I realize how great my capacity of love has grown overtime. What's important is you've done your part and if it's not reciprocated or the relationship didn't work out, there will always be that sense of growth and better understanding about life and love.
• China
25 May 10
now i just want to be a single..but ...my partner he is so...and finnaly i have no choice but to agree to be his girlfriend... however sometimes i feel tired..but he is really a good man...i dont want to hurt him,even realiseing that doing this will hurt me..maybe i have to look forward...someday i perhaps will fall in love with him..
@rosie230 (1696)
25 May 10
Yeah i get deeply involved in relationships, i think mainly because I just want it to work out... i have had disatrious times, and hurt really bad, and I just have to try because i want to be happy