divorce

@rhinarea (311)
May 26, 2010 7:28am CST
Do you agree in divorce? Tell me whats your opinion about it?
10 responses
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
26 May 10
Yes. There are really marriages that will go wrong sooner or later. So why should we stop them from splitting if that's the best option for them? We cannot force them to still live under the same roof if they are really no longer happy with each other.
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26 May 10
I believe in divorce, but only as a last option. If my marriage became loveless or unbearable or not healthy for my children then I think divorce should be an option. I hate the idea of women and men in relationships that cause pain, particularly violent relationships.
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@p_vadla (1685)
• India
1 Jun 10
Sometimes it okay to get divorced.Sometimes it may not be a good idea, especially when children are in crucial stages of growth.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
27 May 10
Divorce is allowed in my country, but certainly it is not so accepted in the conservative societies.I hate divorce, I have seen most of the known around me giving up their marriage. But I think,it is the last option and one must have a good reason for that. Everyone wants a happy marriage, but it is hard to keep the marriage steady , if their partners are irresponsible, unfaithful and violent,which cause immense mental pain for the spouse and the kids. Divorce occurs because sometimes when a couple gets married, they always expect that the marriage will be happy without problems, which is impossible.In most of the families there are adjustment problems. Problems are always with us, the solution is honesty, good communication,willingness to listen and understanding between each other..
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
28 May 10
divorce - description of a divorce
Divorce, often perceived as problem solving, when a husband and wife are in a serious relationship conflict. The fact is the increasing number of divorces in several countries suggests to us that divorce is regarded as an effective solution to solve the problem. which turned out to divorce is a solution that never gave a solution.
26 May 10
50-50! no because i believe that marriage is forever and i want to have a happy and complete family. on the other hand why stay on a marriage that is not working anymore it will just makes you hurt. but as long as you can save it, SAVE IT :)
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
26 May 10
Well, I would have said I don't believe in Divorce and that Marriage should be forever except in extreme circumstances (like abuse) but sometimes its not your choice to make. My ex-husband walked out on me a year and a half ago and then filed for divorce. And what can you do when that happens except sign the paperwork and cope?
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
26 May 10
Divorce is allowed, but it is hated by GOD. I hate divorce, I have seen most of my friends giving up their marriage. But they have reasons for that. Everyone wants a happy marriage, but why should they keep their marriage, if their hubbies are not responsible, unfaithful and there is a violence in family?Divorce occurs because sometimes when a couple gets married, they always expect that the marriage will be happy without problems, which is impossible. Problems are always with us, the solution is good communication, honesty, willingness to listen and understand each other
26 May 10
I believe divorce was something brilliant which was brought in, which meant that women AND men no longer had to stay in abusive marriages etc. But i think that divorce has now become an "easy way out", and too many people use it as a get away when they have an argument! When you get married, divorce should never be something you ever think about, and if your going into the marriage thinking "if it doesn't work out we can always get divorced" then marriage is not for you! When I got married, I never wanted to think divorce was an option! If you have an argument it is too easy to walk away from a marriage. I think the rules of divorce should be much more strict, you shouldn't be able to divorce for example without having 6 months marriage counselling unless there is a mitigating circumstance: violence/adultary/abandonment. If you are getting divorced because of "irreconcilable differences", i.e. one of you wants children the other doesn't etc, you should have to have 6 months marriage councilling and maybe a years separation before a divorce can be filed. It is too simple for people to get divorced, but in some cases, in fact a lot of cases, they need to occur quickly and the couple may have tried very hard to make it work, but it just won't. I don't agree someone sould be forced to stay in a marriage where they are unhappy, but I don't think couples "try" to make marriages work anymore!! When I married my husband he never wanted children, he was adamant he hated them and didnt want them, and despite me wanting to be a mother at some point in my life, I didnt push it: he was always saying "god I hate kids never want one", it hurt me becausse I wanted to be a mum, but then after a year and a bit togetehr, he decided that he in fact did want a baby, and we are now expecting our first child, no pushing or focring on my part, he decided by himself that he actually did want to be a daddy at some point! Many couples would ahve split up withina few weeks of finding out their spouse doesnt want children, not thinking their minds may well change in the furute, especially if you are young!!!! So I am 50/50 on divorce really, it shouldnt be a get out clause of marriage when you realise you messed up, but it is good that people who get into a dangerous abusive marriage or are abandoned by their husbands or wives, can divorce and re marry!
@karen1969 (1779)
26 May 10
Yes, I think divorce is necessary. It is a difficult process but essential if the couple want to separate then marry another person in the future. I have been divorced twice and each time I felt it freed me from a painful relationship. I have now been with my husband for 13 years and we are very happy together.