Why do men cheat??

France
May 26, 2010 9:57am CST
I really want to understand, why men try their hardest to cheat on their loved one?? Why arent they happy with their actual relationship, and always trying to find a more gorgeous girl and throw 5 years of relationship down the drain? What is so amusing to break a girl's heart?
7 responses
• Philippines
26 May 10
Because we are born polygamous in nature. Why did you ask, btw?
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• France
26 May 10
I've had my share I guess. It's not easy to get up on your feet after being cheated on you know
• India
26 May 10
i am so sorry for you, chang.. it pains. But, .. don't you be prepared for the shock? not all males are like that. Just like, not all females are .. you know!!! .. now, ................ wish you all the best!
@ElicBxn (60016)
• United States
27 May 10
you know, its a biological thing, it makes no sense, but they do it anyway Now, humans are supposed to be able to over come their "biological imperative" with their intelligence, but so many men seem to only think with what the roomie calls "their lower brain" or as I've heard from comedians, "thinking below the navel." Let us look at other species. With few exceptions, and they are quite notable, the males are attempting to breed with as many available females as possible, because the successful ones are passing on their genetic material, making them more likely to (in a biological/genetic way) live forever. However, for human females, because after becoming pregnant there are several months of impaired movement, and then there's birth and being then tied down by an infant that is too helpless to do anything for a LONG TIME, it is to their benefit to get a provider who is only providing for their family unit - hence, monogamy is to the woman's benefit. Now, to be sure that the biological offspring really is the male's, he need to try and keep her to himself, so that no other male has access to her, and if that means not having other females to support, then it works well for both parties. However, many men can't seem to get over the genetic program that says "reproduce" and many of those men don't seem to get the message that they are going to have to support those young until the law steps in and garnishes their wages. Then they scream like little girls....
• France
27 May 10
Haha good one elicbxn, you sure know your thing on men. Us being women, being so helpless at times without them men thanx to being physically handicapped is so mind boggling, and i hate itttt!!! I want to independent from any men. Falling in and out of love with the wrong men is starting to screw my life big time. I hate it hate it
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@ElicBxn (60016)
• United States
27 May 10
As I told someone on another discussion. Look at it like you are investing in a relationship. It should be 50/50. You should only go half way to "meet" the person, you should be met with at least 50% effort from him. If you look at it more analytically, rather than with passion, you might find it easier to make better judgments.
• Philippines
29 May 10
the question is what is good in breaking somebody's heart? Truly not only men cheat, but also women. coming from a friend's opinion who is a man, he said they cheat because the ratio of women to men is 2:1, so it is normal for a man to cheat because majority of people are women. I find it unreasonable. For me when you cheat you are weak and your decision is curve. of course you are being dishonest and not loyal when you cheat. Men who cheat are those not satisfied by what they have and maybe external features are more important than internal. But we not always blame themen to cheat because his partner is also responsible or this. Maybe his wife or girlfriend have no time for him, that is why he is looking fo rsome who will care a lot for him.
@missybear (11396)
• United States
26 May 10
I really don't know but I just want to point out that it's not always guys cheating on girls, it goes both ways. I think a lot of times people get bored with each other so they look for some one else.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
26 May 10
There is nothing amusing about a failure relationship, especially a man cheating on his wife. In general speaking, men do cheat on occasion, that is because they aren't love their spouse enough to keep the marriage stable. They rather try something new; curiosity is the killer.
@mine2008 (108)
• Philippines
26 May 10
that's the power of temptation some girls love to flirt guys no body perfect. we just looking for fun but we hide it as best as we can for the sake for our love ones.
• India
26 May 10
friend. It is hard to convince! ... the trouble is not just with men. Or Women. the modern style of living, and the modernization is the culprit. When there is no other pressure, and, everything seems normal, .. such sort of cheating, or leaving one another does not arise. --------------- i am so sorry for you. It does not amuse ! .. there might have been some communication gap.