Relationship

India
May 27, 2010 9:30pm CST
What is the most important thing in a relationship? I have seen many people fall in relationship, they will be good fro a year or two but not more than that, the people who continue relationship is only 2% of the whole world i feel. The experienced people are either stressed or out of their normal life , Is relationship haunts the people of their life ! disgusting but true to hear
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@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
29 May 10
Hello Ganesh. I understand where you're coming from and I feel the same way too. I see most people ending up and breaking up with their partners after a few years of being together. Probably because they feel that their relationship is turning complacent and they feel that everything is a mediocre. They find themselves looking at someone else, getting excited of someone else and getting gaga over someone else without realizing the effort of the person who has been sitting by their side all over the years. As for me, I believe that a key to a good relationship is your constant awareness to work it out and to find something interesting when everything becomes so comfortable and routine. We should always keep our communication lines open and always act on feedback of our partners.
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• India
30 May 10
Yeah you are true, but i dont understand how people waste their life by fighting each other and not having a lying relationship continuing
• India
30 May 10
i mean not having a good relationship continuing
@mareeh (266)
• Philippines
29 May 10
I think the most important thing in a relationship is communication. I heard that from a lot of couples and I definitely agree. Being honest is also very important and I think that when couples fight, I think they should just end the fight right away and make peace with each other. Staying mad doesn't solve anything.
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• India
30 May 10
But EGO is the one which doesnt end the fight there
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
28 May 10
Hi there ganesh Prabhuk! I think that the most important thing in a relationship is loyalty. because along with loyalty comes everything else that you would do to make your significant other feel that you love them and it would keep communication open between the two of you. It will also be your foundation for your willingness to do your best to make the relationship work. It will also bring about trust between you and your partner.
• India
30 May 10
yes true , the relationship banks on loyalty now the environment has changes , people love for money. money has become more important in life than anything else
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
28 May 10
Trust and respect and love all go together, when one goes, the others go too.
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• Philippines
28 May 10
Trust, respect, communication and Love. These are the four things that make a relationship work. You must not only trust your partner but also take good care of the trust he/she has entrusted you. That's very important. Once it's broken, it's very difficult to restore. Always remember that we have our own personality, likes and dislikes, and our opinions may sometimes differ. That's where respect comes in. Sometimes, you may not meet eye to eye but once you respect each other, you learn to compromise. Communication is a tool that a partnership needs. It's not about talking or listening but verbal communication is also important. Some say that when two arrive at an argument, they shouldn't just ignore their problems but talk about them and solve them as partners. Lastly, love is the key to everything. Loving means accepting your partner for who he/she is. Show love in different ways whether they're small ways or big ways. It doesn't matter. Have fun in your relationship and make ways to show how much you really care for each other.
• India
30 May 10
Its obviously disgusting...but lemme tell u somethin...It all abt individuals who get into relationship..Honestly speaking a tool called compromise can make relationship more pleasant....But it count on way we lead our life and priorities we limit.....