"I Hate My Life So Much!!!",...............Have You Ever Said ...??????

@sagar21 (1579)
India
May 27, 2010 10:12pm CST
Hey I think this is silly to ask.. No one hates their life..including me...But it often slips out of our tongue.."Oh God!I hate my life..Its a total mess....yadada" Its our only life why hate it. And the loathing always leads to self-destruction,am I correct? So why hate it enjoy it to the limit...ha..ha... God has given it..some are fully agile ,others have disabilities.illness..but never ever say I hate my life....We have no authority to say so..... Edify me If I'm wrong.. Expecting lots of responses ...he..he.. Have a great day/night... "Oh forgot,Enjoy your life"
12 responses
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
28 May 10
Interesting idea... but simply saying "yay yay life is good" doesn't actually make life good. I tried that before, and it didn't work. I can say to myself: "Self... I have a good job, with good pay, and I love it" But when I look around, I'm still doing a job a hate, day after day, for just over minimum wage, and I hate it.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
28 May 10
don't feel so bad about your job,you have a job to say "I hate my job"...but think about the jobless....
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
29 May 10
Actually, being jobless wasn't so bad. lol
@cadguy08 (1224)
• Canada
28 May 10
I agreed about hating my life , I usually said that to myself all the time.. Of what happen to my life and frustration does life gave it to me. That's reality human is the one who makes his future right. But there's some destiny of your life that you are the one who made , don't want to explain further more. Surely I really appreciate the God's made us little not perfect and I'm still luckily I'm not those people who are disable and can't work. But as of now I had high blood which unable to work due to always dizzy and I hope I will be maintaining my health in good condition.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
28 May 10
nice of you ,don't get tensed,may God bless you to keep you in fine fettle..
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 May 10
I think we are all guilty of using this phrase at one time or another. We all can get discouraged with the path our life may be traveling. it's just an emotional release we all seem to fall back on. We don't really aahte our lives. it's just the emotion and frustration coming out.
• Mexico
29 May 10
Hi sagar: I must admit that I've said those words when I think that everything is going wrong in my life. I'm not prouf for this. I should pray in these cases and not do this, it's just a feeling that urge you to respond with anger and we have to think before talking. Thanks for sharing with us your thoughts about this subject. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
• China
28 May 10
Yes i have used this so many times in my life. When ever i feel so trouble and can not find any solution then sometime i use to say this. But it's not true. I love my life so much. I believe a person who doesn't love him/her self they can not love others.
@chuacx (95)
• Philippines
28 May 10
i've said that a lot of times though most of the time, i really don't mean it. if i'm just irritated or frustrated, i would have said that. but after that, i'm back to normal.
@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
28 May 10
I have said that many times in my lifetime. Before my kids, and after my kids. I get frustrated when things don't pan out right and just think, "what did I do to deserve this?" I really hate it when I have ONE thing to do and then a million other disasters happen all at once. I don't really hate my life, I hate the things that go badly or stress. God gave us this life to do what He intended on it and I got to keep that in mind when things go to rough for me to handle. You have a great life and you enjoy it to the fullest too.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
28 May 10
For me if you hate your life then you hate Jehovah God too because he is the only God created you then it is bad you hurt Jehovah God.
• Philippines
28 May 10
You're right. I doesn't have to come to it. If we're having a bad day then just leave it at that. Don't let it grow to hating our life. It's unreasonable to say such a line.
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
28 May 10
well I do said it to my self when I was in collage, but you are right we only have one life why do we need to hate it and waste it, why not we just enjoy it and be a productive member of a family, we just said those thing in our life because we are in the middle of a problem.
@nancy0618 (477)
• Philippines
28 May 10
when things always goes wrong, sometimes you tend to hate yourself. But at least we done blame someone if we did something wrong. It is normal to hate yourself sometimes, we are just human.
• Philippines
28 May 10
I admit that I do say this also. But after a lot of self contemplation, it is because of our own attitude why we say things like this. If we would just concentrate on our own life and keep getting better for yourself and for your family, we would eventually love it and be satisfied with what we have. Enjoy life! :)