ever had a crush on someone but never said to the person..........???

love is precious - ever loved someone so much but
India
May 28, 2010 10:40am CST
hey friends thai thing happens to many people on this planet ......they like someone very much but never or cannot say to the person......in fact the likeness is from both sides.......but never said to each other..... have you ever been through this in life........
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48 responses
@RawBill1 (8542)
• Gold Coast, Australia
29 May 10
Oh yeah, of course. I think that everyone goes through this when they are teenagers at school. I recently found one of these girls from my school years that this happened with on Facebook. We caught up on where our lives have been over the last 22 years and had a good laugh at ourselves and how shy we were with each other back then. We both knew that we liked each other, but we were both too scared to do anything about it! My advice to any teenagers out there today who might be reading this is to share your feelings with these people. Be honest and open with them. It seems hard to do at the time, but it is easier than dealing with lost opportunities and the mental trauma that goes with dragging these things out over time.
@sminut13 (1786)
• Singapore
30 May 10
haha well like many of us mylotters here, i'm one of them too, in fact, i had a crush for a number of years and that was my one and only crush as after that i got married. oh but not to him. to my husband. i never mentioned anything, i was maybe all of 11/12 i guess. and way too shy. but people always used to tease us saying he liked me or something, used to make me blush till i thought my face was beet root red. but i don't know how he felt too. now i'm married and with two kids. but sometimes, when i'm alone or have a chance to relax or something jogs up my memories of those times, i look back in fondness and embarassment ehehe i wonder to myself, why did i do tht, now i think abt it, that's so childish, etc etc. but like in an earlier post, i too believe that it's best to let your feelings be known. there might be rejection, it will be tough, it will be tougher still to muster up enough courage to confess and cope with rejection, but it's better than regretting later in life. although, i know it's easier said than done hehe
• India
30 May 10
hey i like your response .it was cute one....
@sminut13 (1786)
• Singapore
1 Jun 10
hahaha thanks, so...do i get best response??
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
28 May 10
I had experience like this. I had a big crush at my Geometry teacher. And,of course,can you imagine if ever i told him that i admire him and fantasizing him(lol...) So,i kept it as a secret and never told any of my classmate before,afraid that,they will tease me(oh my..what a shame)
• India
28 May 10
ho this is amazing ......this is cool i like your way of saying ,.................so hey this is the best response i have got for this discussion .......so i am marking it as the best response........well take care ....n joy life......
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
29 May 10
thanks for the BR mark,thu you've given it too early since you are a newbie here in mylot (your number shows) you can wait at least a week before selecting the best response dear. thanks again and have a good weekend
@jamed28 (1910)
• Philippines
29 May 10
I had a crush when I was in elementary. I never got a chance to talk to her. I was so afraid to go even near her. I just stares at her every time she passed by. My day is already complete everytime I saw her then. After elementary, I never saw her again.
• India
29 May 10
hey it was nice to hear your response.....well i wish you could tell her .......
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
29 May 10
Yeah I have had this happen to me a lot of times. Even this past week . The guy I had a crush on has a girlfriend so I never said anything. Of course I have always been shy around guys that I like. I guess I am also scared of getting hurt like I have in the past.
• India
29 May 10
well i believe you should tell your feelings .........never keep your feelings in your heart they are mean to be shown .......for whom they are created.......well thanks for responding ....take care
• Indonesia
29 May 10
Yes, when I was a teenager, I had a crush with my friend. I knew he liked me too, coz his friend told me about his feelings. But as much as I want him to be my boyfriend, I couldn't be the one who makes the first move. So I just waited, waited...and waited. But apparently he was just too shy, and did't have the courage to tell me. So when his friend asked me to be his girlfriend, I asked yes, just to make him jealous. I was an idiot back then...lol But till now, I keep wondering what would it be like if I told him my feelings? I guess I'll never know the answer.
• India
29 May 10
well i believe that you should have said him .......or if you have a chance then you can still tell him.......take care.......
• India
29 May 10
Whenever I felt something for someone, I said it without fearing rejection ? So nothing as such.
• India
29 May 10
well that is something brave of you ..........
@dawnald (84131)
• Shingle Springs, California
28 May 10
Yes, well the time that I had a crush on my married doctor, I really thought it was a very good idea not to say anything. :D
• India
29 May 10
this was something........nice......
@prinzcy (5063)
• Malaysia
28 May 10
I used to be in that situation, more than once. Most of the cases were they never notice or know I like them. And in most cases, there's always a border I can't cross to convey my feeling like his relationship with me or unavoidable circumstances. Well I can't help it for something like this to happen.
• India
28 May 10
well yeh you are right sometimes people just never like to cross the borders.......take care......
• Philippines
28 May 10
Yep. I've been there. Highschool days are such a romantic part of my life. I always see her but never really got the chance to say how i feel. I even made a special card for her but never got through giving it to her.
• India
28 May 10
hey that is so sweet but why didn't you gave her the card you made just for her ........well sometimes we do somethings that we cant imagine ......like this you made a card for a girl whom you never know ........and this things happens with many of us,..........well i wish you must give the card to the other girl .......take care.....
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
28 May 10
Hi Himan..... I have face this situation when I am in the junior high and senior high school. I like particular one boy but not have guts to tell him. So I just talk about him with my girl friend, who usually have the same problem, afraid to make first move.
• India
28 May 10
hey you are right actually everybody finds fear in making the first move......welll i wish you best of luck in future and hope you wont be afraid the next time.......just tell the person that you like him....hoooo that would be amazing na..........take care.....i like the way you say hi himan to me.....thanks.....
@_Honey_ (781)
• Philippines
28 May 10
Hello. I've been there a loooot of times especially back in college. It's pretty natural that you can attracted to someone from time to time. Some may be your classmate, your neighbor, your acquaintance, a colleague or an org mate. As a matter of fact, I got a crush on my colleague who sit next to me. Imagine how beautiful my every day is seeing him every time I go to work. LOL. But I never told him that I got a crush on him probably because when you mature, you would think that this is not a big deal anymore. After all, the person might take it soooo seriously and this may cause a gap between the two of you.
• India
28 May 10
well yes that happens .....but you still can maintain that friendship ....well i wish you say to your colleague ...thanks for responding ......take care keep mylotting.........
@Iram786 (498)
28 May 10
Plenty of times. Especially because I'm a really shy person and I don't really like telling people about my feelings unless I know them really well and I'm very close to them. And then obviously there's the fear of rejection and humiliation. I do have a lot more confidence now though thankfully :)
• India
28 May 10
hey i wish you get out of your shyness soon.........well take care happy mylotting.......
@acey76 (1278)
• Philippines
28 May 10
Yes, I have experienced that also,well here in our country, girls cannot be too open to their intentions to the opposite gender... we have a very conservative culture thats why most of the girls here are like that =)
• India
28 May 10
yeh actually ......that happens with girls many times ........still that things happens here in my country..........well take care,,,,keep mylotting........
@jugsjugs (13045)
28 May 10
I think that there are alot of people out there that have never said anything to a person that they have really liked,that is really a shame as sometimes you really wish that you have said something to the person.Alot of people are too scared to say that they have feelings for a person as they feel are scared rejection.
• India
28 May 10
yes actually fear is the thing that makes people not to say things or to approach.....but you know that if this happens ........everything around us becomes beautiful..........well take care
@catalyser (531)
• Malaysia
28 May 10
I have a crush on a girl who is in studying in the same university as I am. I'm pretty sure its one sided and I have only been in the same class as her twice. Since we are taking different courses but taking has some subject crosses. I only watch her from afar and from what her friends told me about her, she's pretty smart and looks like it too. Too bad we're not in the same course though and have nothing in common apart from those two classes I took with her.
• India
28 May 10
hey that is great dude why dont you try to approach her with some nice words ..i hope she would get your attention and she would also feel that....you are checking her out.........well that is all i can say..........its all up to you .......well take care keep mylotting.........
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
28 May 10
Actually that is how i got the love of my life, sweetie. Two stupid people, who cannot open their mouths and hearts at the same time. TATA.
• India
28 May 10
well this is something really amazing.........great i wish you both njoy life with full of happiness .........and GOD fulfills all your wishes .........take care TATA......
@sheanne (440)
• Philippines
28 May 10
Hello himanshuorange, I've been through such situation in life. During my high school days I have a crush to a cool, very kind teenager boy who I found out few weeks back he turned out to be a priest. We used to be a good friend, seen each other in church but I never really thought he will be a priest someday. I really have a big crush on him during those days and I think even we told how much we like each other he will still follow God's calling. And I'm following my nursing's calling :) Happy mylotting.
• India
28 May 10
hey this is a nice thing .........well i wish you both to meet sometime in life for some good moments........take care and happy mylotting........
• Philippines
28 May 10
I've been through that experience when I was in highschool. I really like the person yet I'm afraid and ashamed to show it since he's a close friend of mine. I was thinking it might ruin the friendship if he doesn't feel like I do. Just to discover from other friends that we share the same feelings but too late already since they migrated to another country...
• India
28 May 10
hey that was not good ........you must have said him .well dont worry everything happens for the good.......i wish you can tell your close riend about the feeling you had for him.......well take care it was nice to hear read your response......
@hanizah (256)
28 May 10
Of course I had experience to have a crush on someone but I have never ever told him because if I do,I'm sure he will be far to me..I'm afraid that would happen.so I will just be silent about it.
• India
28 May 10
hey is this still going .........so why dont you tell him...???