if you have two people that matched your ideal SO

United States
May 28, 2010 12:24pm CST
if you had two people that matched your idea of a perfect significant other in every way possible but one had a bonus of good looks and the other had the bonus of a ton of money which would you choose? im not one to choose a person on either but if they were a perfect match already im not sure which would be more important since it wouldnt be that shallow then.. i mean you cant help that you have good luck! which is more important good looks or tons of money? both can fade.. money can give you security.. looks might cause problems as far as other people wanting them.. i cant decide.. can you?
2 responses
@mady146 (81)
• India
29 May 10
Well, if they are my perfect match already, I would see who appreciate my feelings, meaning to whom I'm perfect match for out of those two? But as far as your question is concerned specifically and if I've to choose out of these two options..I would choose good looks :)
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• United States
12 Jul 10
good idea on looking at his point of view on who you are best for
@mentalward (14691)
• United States
28 May 10
I'd choose the one with money, most definitely! I'm not materialistic and having more money than needed has never been a goal of mine but I do know that looks fade a lot faster than money as long as you're careful with the money. Money can make more money. Having more than you need is always a bonus while looks do fade. Of course, these days, with all the plastic surgeons around, having money can keep the looks going a lot longer! Still, I know what can happen when your SO is very good-looking. My first husband was GORGEOUS! It wasn't just me who thought that, either. It seems that almost every female who saw him thought so, too. A lot of them weren't ashamed of throwing themselves at him, even when I was right there beside him! The real problem was that he seldom told them that he was married or even tried to just say no to these other women. I didn't marry him because of his looks, though. They just came along for the ride. Looking back, I wish he hadn't been so good-looking. Nope, I'm so not into looks. I'd go for the money, assuming I had to choose one of them.
• United States
12 Jul 10
youve made a good point.. good looks can just lead to the SO cheating down the road