bitter or better?
May 29, 2010 3:34am CST
how will i know if im getting bitter or better? i know ive forgiven but have not forgotten, i just want to know if this is still normal that im seeking for revenge on the other party involved.
29 May 10
hello dayle! you know, forgiving is not the art of forgetting the pain. It is the renewal of one's willingness to be hurt again. if you are still seeking revenge upon those who hurt you, then you are still in the throes of "the moment". you are still bitter.. but if you can accept that everything that has happened is in the past and you are ready to face the future with renewed hope and trust, then you will definitely feel better.. you can ascertain that you are already on your way to getting over the hurt if you don't dwell on taking revenge at him/her anymore.