bitter or better?

@dayle59 (152)
Philippines
May 29, 2010 3:34am CST
how will i know if im getting bitter or better? i know ive forgiven but have not forgotten, i just want to know if this is still normal that im seeking for revenge on the other party involved.
3 responses
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
29 May 10
You're better when the other person get's embarrassed more, or in any other way you pull your act. You can't be bitter in taking revenge + You'll feel better ;) Quite funny to answer on 2 topics of urs, lol.
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
29 May 10
Hahaha, yea let's do so :D Actually it's one of the first times I have fun in MyLot indeed :D I hope more topics like this pop up ;D
• Philippines
29 May 10
hello dayle! you know, forgiving is not the art of forgetting the pain. It is the renewal of one's willingness to be hurt again. if you are still seeking revenge upon those who hurt you, then you are still in the throes of "the moment". you are still bitter.. but if you can accept that everything that has happened is in the past and you are ready to face the future with renewed hope and trust, then you will definitely feel better.. you can ascertain that you are already on your way to getting over the hurt if you don't dwell on taking revenge at him/her anymore.
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
hi deriellevc73^_^ thanks for the enlightenment. im actually not that rude to people.just to her i guess. but im as harmful as a butterfly can be..^_^
@nanayangel (7691)
• Philippines
29 May 10
Hi there Dayle 59! I think that if you're still seeking revenge for the person, then you're bitter. You're better when you don't care about your ex any more than you do for other people you're civil with.
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
29 May 10
hello nanayangel..wheew.. you have quite a unique name there.^^ i think so. but im really tying to be better now. wish me luck. ^_~