stabbing back of a 15 years friend

Philippines
May 29, 2010 10:01am CST
has anyone experience being stabbed at the back of an old friend? and what will you do if you lost your trust to that friend? will you forgive your friend? i am asking this because i had an experience, though i forgave her but i can't bring back the trust anymore. we still talk through chatting because she is in other country. I just don't know what to do when we see each other in the future.
1 response
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
29 May 10
wow,you really mean 15 years? And after long 15 years of friendship,your friend stabbed you/backfight you? Well,if the matter is too serious or really hurt you that much,then,i guess it would be very hard for you to trust your friend same way like it is before. Since you didn't mention how your friend hurt or stabbed you at the back,i can't say more. Maybe,you need to talk with her when she arrives from abroad. There is difference talking thru chat/online than talking in person. Talking in person,will give you the intense of honesty and if your friend still care for your and your friendship. Better give your friend a chance until you meet again in person.
• Philippines
30 May 10
yeah, and it was the first time we had a problem. I thought she was really kind and very caring until that day came. To make the story short, she was obsessed to her ex boyfriend and she made a fake account (friendster) using my name and add her bf on the friend's list. Her boyfriend and I always chat and we share some issues. So she used the fake account to comment on the guy's fs and hers to saying really below the belt words. So the guy was angry to me and when we talked (3 of us) she denied that she made the account. 100% that account was not mine. So silly of me, I trusted her for knowing my fs username and password. I learned also my lesson that not to trust anyone about passwords and etc.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
30 May 10
oh my,i don't think your friend is a real friend. you trusted her that much that you gave her your password,and she was able to access you account. and she did a nasty thing,then,denied. she doesn't deserve your trust in anyway. better start making distance with her. she won't make a good company for you dear.
• Philippines
31 May 10
I seldom talk to her even I see her online, but still I reply when she sends message. You're right, I can't trust her anymore. Even I want to do it, my heart don't like to do it.