Help!How to conquer shyness?

China
May 29, 2010 11:10am CST
How to act confidently?How to conquer shyness?It's inside,and very powerful. The shortcoming of shyness make me totally confused.I have no idea how to start a conversation with others,espacially when there are only we two.I hate the state of being embarrassed. Have you ever had the same issue?How did you do to conquer shyness?Please give me some advice,thanks a lot!!!
2 responses
@tjen_anni (317)
• Indonesia
29 May 10
Hii tranquillity.. I used to be a super shy person, but now people say the vice versa...:D First, you have to be comfortable with yourself. Accept yourself as you are. I used to feel that people look to my minus side, but not actually..Your self confidence should be imboost..try to look at your achievement, what kind of things that you are good at. Make friends with sanguin people, you'll see the real world is... To start a conversation with others, usually do the chit chat, like asking where they come from, just try to find similarity between you and others... Hope this can help...:)
• China
30 May 10
Ok.From your advice,I decide to list the advantage of myself.Try to forge the shyness thing.Maybe this will help me to feel comfortable in a conversation.Thank you :D
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
29 May 10
Sweetie, the most important thing is to be yourself. Just start talking about anything that comes to mind. The first time is always the hardest. The second time it will be easier. Just take a deep breath, think of something that relaxes you and start a conversation. Good LUCK. tata.
• China
30 May 10
Thanks.You're right.If I want to be confidence,I should take the first step.Otherwise I'll always be upset like now.Well,It's really hard to start,but today I'll try.Thanks again.