choice

Depends how much the situation affects others. If, let's say, your love for someone can somehow kill people, I'd say you should sacrifice yourself... otherwise, your conscience will make you never be the same again. However, if it just hurts people a bit, (like parents or other people not approving) you shouldn't care much, unless they bring reasons that make sense to you, and are able to change your mind. All in all, you should follow your own judgment.

well it totally depends on the situation. My which decision will be good for others i will chose that one. Because i will be more happy when i will see that some other peoples are happy only because of my one decision. I can not be self fish. I can not be happy if others are not happy because of me.

I think it is case to case basis. Why will you give on loving someone for other people? Is it because the people around you are against that someone? On the other hand, loving someone should be mutual love not a one-way love. If the person you love is worthy of your love because he/she loves you back then he/she is worth fighting for. Meaning, love that person no matter what happens. It may be true that you have to choose what is best for many, however, that saying may not apply to a love between 2 individuals or couple because you two alone are involved who can feel the feelings. Love conquers all....

It is the most difficult decision one has to take! I mean you can easily give up the one you love with the help of your mind, but your heart will aways be thinking about your lover, i mean it wil be realy difficult to forget that person! It is a realy tough ask! I mean it can affect emotionaly, or pshychologically....So all the best for anyone who is about to do that!

No matter what may happen I will always be standing beside my love because he is beside me too, love is for eternity whatever happens we should never lose hope and should always be next to the love ones to support them.

With the type of life I had which was full of caring for others just to get backstabbed by them, I would definitely "keep loving the one you love no matter what happens". I assume this object of the "love" not only is a life partner but also a family member (parents, children, etc) and friends. But don't get me wrong, the people who I put as my object of love did the most damage to me than just a typical stranger. But the reason why I would still love them is because we've had so much good memories together and maybe one or two major bad incidences. What are the chances of me getting to have those people I love and care about in my life versus the person across town? We know the people we do because it was meant to be. I believe anyone who lives on this planet will have good and bad days. But I don't see the reason why I would sacrifice "giving up on the one u love", that someone that is so special just for another person to live life the way a normal human being should be going through ups and downs. Plus, even if you did try to do good, what guarantees that person will do good to others as a favor? Heck, you will never see them again. Yeah, karma but is it worth it? Not to me. I don't know but that's my life decision. Even though times may be rough, I would rather go through the ups and downs with them for "eternity" just because I love them. And I'm pretty sure they would say the same things to me too.

Do I have to stop loving the one I love or can I just not be with him anymore in order to help others? Because I don't think I could ever just stop loving him, but I'd let him go if say it helped save society or something. I'd also let him go if it made him happier or saved his life. But I'd still love him. Just from afar I guess.

i think giving up on love ^_^ because love when a mate can be approached because love can not be in force ^_^