If you belongs to rich family then only your future is bright..?

@siliguri (4241)
India
June 3, 2010 7:49am CST
Today this proverb is rightly suited by seeing the world..because of lack of money i haven't done MBA which require huge money..yeah i'm not saying that only money can decide your future..the hardwork also play vital role but very rare case..means very few pupil who are not belongs to rich family but because of their hardwork they had make their future bright.What you think...about my perception over this issue.. or you are not agree with me?
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@ladygator (3465)
• United States
3 Jun 10
Money is huge. When you work hard for your money and also be wise with your financial decisions I think that makes you very successful. And you may not always stay there in that standing but its the mentality that gets you there most successfully. I think having a rich family can fall to easy, unless you have a family business you inherit that stands tall with luck no matter what. And of course that you enjoy it, because if you dont enjoy what you do then you are money rich but heart poor.
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@qianyun6 (2067)
• China
4 Jun 10
You are quite right! In my country, once there was a statement in 1980s, said "You can be well everywhere if you learn mathematics, physics and chemistry well!", but today, it changed as "Learning mathematics, physics and chemistry well has no more use than having a good father!". Forgive me for the bad translation, but you may understand the meaning behind that?
@siliguri (4241)
• India
4 Jun 10
Offcourse friend i understand what you have written..
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
i don't think that applies to everyone..a lot of rich kids are not really good in academics..they are not so eager to learn because they know that their parents can provide from them..unlike those kids who grew up in a poor family..they have dreams and visions that they want to achieve..
@med889 (5941)
4 Jun 10
I know many friends who are from a very rich background and yes they need not worry for their future at all, their hobbies are simply very different to others and they will never be bothering about the homework and degrees too.
@123nnj (47)
• India
4 Jun 10
yes, money solves many problem in your life and if you belongs to rich family you can make you future bright with different facilities, but than also you need your own ability to make your self successful. Money can help to grow ability but it doesn't mean that if you do not have ability you can not be successful, yes the way comes to be hard.
• India
4 Jun 10
i don't think the way as there are a lots of ways in the life and it is in the gods hands to decide that we have to play as he told us that is the thing and we get bright future only what we do good in the past.there is nothing in the hands of money but now money takes a part not all but if we go in that way then it really so bad and it is all in the hands of the god..have fun..
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
3 Jun 10
I think money can make certain things in life a lot easier such as going to school paying rent, light bills, and food. without money living can be so much harder, its not fun living day to day from pay check to pay check or whatever sort of income most people live on these days. so yes in some ways money dose make ones future brighter because having money can open up so many more life opportunity's and provide less stress in everyday living. With that said there are many things that money cant give us money cant give is true love and companionship, money cant comfort us when were sad money cant talk to us and give us advices when we need it, money can only provide more opportunity's and keep us fed, sheltered, clothed and warm, but it cant give is food for are souls, and mind. no matter what anyone says, yes we can buy friendship even in some cases lovers, but its not real friendship and a bought lover would leave as soon as they stoped reciving the money, and living that lavish life style so, thats why people say money isent everything, but I do agree the future can and will be much more brighter with more money because as I said having money can open more doors and opportunity's.
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
3 Jun 10
Money do have a huge impact in deciding my life but I don't know whether it will be different if I were born as an heiress or something. The way I think now is influence by the way I was brought up. I was taught the value of money and the need to spend it wisely. I also learn that we should work hard and study well to earn what we want. I wonder whether I'll be thinking the same if my life were different. I probably end up a lazy girl who depends on her family fortune.
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
I agree with you. It's sad that to attain a higher education, we need money. There are many who are so lucky to have higher education but they just waste it.
@charylady (419)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
although money can make things a lot smoother for you, it does not guarantee a bright future. someone who grew up rich may even be at a disadvantage because chances are things were too easy growing up and this person may be ill equipped to handle difficulties later on. on the other hand someone whose family had to struggle to keep everything together knows what its like to work hard. this person would then know how to deal with difficult situations. so a bright future really depends on being able to make the right decisions and and a lot of hard work.
• United States
4 Jun 10
unfortunately, i think you are right that people with money have it easy and it really is not fair, but i also think that if a person works hard and deserves what they have, then they should feel rich anyway. if you look at what you have compared to the rest of the world, chances are you will be in the top 3%, richer than 97% of the world, put it into perspective and you may feel richer than you really are.
@jeanieous (107)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
I remember the famous line, money makes the world go round. Some people money is really necessary evil but for some, the major motivation of human is search for love. For me, it depends on the person on how he is going to use his money or to use his dreams. Some rich kids tend to waste their money for buying nonsense things and by not committing themselves to school, however some rich kids are successful not because of their own but because of their parents who gave them money or gave them business. Whether you are rich or poor, I believe that it depends on you on how you will build your future. If you are not a rich man then do nothing, of course you're future will be a mess.
@zengy57 (59)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
i won't agree with you its not all money that makes ones life bright. its on the person who makes his future bright ( hardwork is the thing)though you belong to rich family if you dont have the right attitude towards your future, nothing will happen richness makes it easier but reaping success thru hardwork is sweeter...