According to you how to get a girlfriend?

@chanlot (189)
Indonesia
June 3, 2010 9:03pm CST
Hi all ....my name is Han I've aged 30 years and I've wanted to get married. But so far I have not had a had a couple of timesgirlfriend. Actually I going out with a woman, but I always fail. so far I have always had an evil woman and I have to be traumatized for a relationship with a woman. According to you why I always fail in finding a mate and what a great way to get a girlfriend, so I can quickly get married?
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@cloud31 (5809)
8 Jun 10
The stage of getting married is not easy and fast as we thought,we need to consider a lot of things before getting into it.First, to be able to get a girlfriend you should not set a standard that's beyond your expectations.In order to get a girlfriend "you need to consider of your feelings,do you really love the one your are courting or you just want to get marry soon. In every actions we do it can easily tell if we are really serious of what your intention is, if you just want to get married then the girl would feel that you just want to play over her and not loving her.All girls wanted to be love and thats what they were looking for a man.To be loved by a man and marry the one they love. LOVE your girl and marry, don't marry without love.If you are looking for a partner you shouldn't base of what you like, you should put "FEELINGS OF LOVE"above and not a standard. Happy myLotting and Have a nice day!
@cloud31 (5809)
8 Jun 10
Thank you!
• China
8 Jun 10
Yes I agree with you, your words is very incisive.
@chanlot (189)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 10
hai .... cloud31 I am looking for a woman not just as a couple making love, but I want him to be a wife and a friend of my life forever. I am a loyal kind of guy and do not like change-dressing girlfriend. But I also wonder why until now I have not got a candidate's wife? I've tried as much as possible by finding a lot of acquaintances, but many of them already have boyfriends. oooh my god....!
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
What do you look for in a woman? Maybe your standards are too high that nothing really works out for you. I do have a friend who had the same problem and he wanted to marry as soon as possible cause he's already beyond 30 years old. He also failed many times cause his standards were really high. He didnt lower his standards anyway but he still got married after some time and it was a long time. He is happily married now and was able to marry the girl of his dreams. I guess the right time will come as well as the right person will come.
• China
4 Jun 10
your intention is wrong, you need to believe love but no just marry because you wanna marry. you neglect power of love, love is the important element of a marriage. so, just try to love sb, you will reward with equal love. more information about Love www.cnbodetrade.com www.nike588.com
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
I would get that answer from someone who's not married. I dont wonder why you're not married yet. lol
@chanlot (189)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 10
I like women who are faithful,honest, patient, religious and clever. But it was hard to find a woman that we desire and for this I do not get a woman with these criteria. Do I have to take the woman away from my criteria? Whether I will be happy with a woman far from the criteria which I expect?
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
that makes me wonder, If i don't do something in four years, i might end up just like you at my 30's. I swear that's the main reason why am so afraid to have a girl friend in the first place, because i will be left behind like all the others they sucked dry. i believe for now, the best way is to be friend to them. at least get them to hang out with you and try to be fun most of the time. it's not easy but relationships always starts with friendship.don't rush getting married, or it would be a lot worse than breaking up and that is divorce with expense.
@zyxel999 (44)
• China
8 Jun 10
The more important thing is what you are looking for? A wife or a partner and love? Marriage without love is painful even though you have got married. Then there would be many problems in your future life. If you really love a girl you will bear with her hobbies and bits of bad temper and some others out of your standards. You should just rid of your standards and communicate with girls looking for "marriage feeling", then go ahead, good luck!
@chanlot (189)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 10
Yes of course I am looking for a woman to get married and certainly with the woman I loved, because I think a wife is a friend to live forever, therefore I need to find a woman I really loved. But so far I have not gotten the woman. Thanks for your replies ...!
24 Jun 10
Hi.. chanlot My name Azizeh..., where you come from ? what causes you always fail ? My advice, don not be tooo pessimistic, keep the spirit and confident, sure someday there will be there with you.
@chanlot (189)
• Indonesia
25 Jun 10
Azizah ok .... thanks for your comment, nice to see you. actually I had a couple of times going out with girls, but I also do not know why I am a failure, maybe the Lord was giving me a test. But thank God now have the acquaintance of a girl who might be fills my heart.
• India
26 Jun 10
Brother, how to get a girlfriend? it depends if its for a night stand, or for few days or week... is easy... may be visit a bar or so..... but to get someone for life...is a challenge.. as in we have high expectations and search for someone who matches all those criterias.. which quite impossible. so its important to compromise a bit, and i would say... TIME is the biggest Hero. before time nothing is possible.. so be patient my friend.... coz if God answers your prayer, its good, but in case if he lets you wait for your prayers and work hard to achieve it, trust me, he has something amazing in store for you..
@chanlot (189)
• Indonesia
26 Jun 10
yes ... from now on I've tried everything that I believe could get a mate, among others met many people around me and good relationships with people that I know.
@wizteen (502)
• India
4 Jun 10
well.... put on some nice threads, be yourself, hang around where you can find women, then... umm... socialise you don't have to treat em special, just treat em like you do to other friends, as you get to know someone, you'll have a thing or 2 goin on between you two
@vikas_711 (106)
• India
4 Jun 10
Should have good wearing sense, wear good N neat cloths, Think carefully and then say something, be confident dont be afraid, make her feel secured. Moreover it depands on the girl, wht she wants, her feelings, her nature. Do according to her make her happy, then definately she will do anyting for you to make you haapy.