Simple reason that strain relationship

India
June 4, 2010 9:22am CST
"You don't love me enough!" voiced her wife in his mobile. "You don't love me enough either" was his humble encountering words. Relationship breaks for certain but particular reason. Work pressure, family, peers, community, society set-up, status, ideology, belief can affected relationship. There are always a hundred and one reasons of broken relationship. However, people in a relationship often failed to recognized the particular but simple reason to a strain relationship. The outcome of the strained relationship are often taken into account and more seriously than the actual fact or root cause which can be dealt with promptly and effectively. When relationship broke, the people involved in the relationship are engrossed in the outcomes or bitternesses of the root cause of the strained relationship such as behavioral negligences, avoidances, accusations, distrusts, angers, suspicion etc. The outcomes of strained relationship prevented people to see the real root cause. Priority is often the root cause of strained relationship. When people in relationship do not give priority to the partner but to other worries and people then the relationship is tended to break.
4 responses
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
i think most relationships break up because people tend to do an easy way out instead of sitting together and talk how to salvage the relationship both parties tend to destroy it more by just deciding to end everything without giving the chance for the relationship to workout. open communication and an open mind is a key to every successful relationship. the worst will be letting others or a third party do the decision for you.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
5 Jun 10
All relationships need to ne nurtured to grow. Sometimes the simplest measure can be the cruelest act. Words are spoken that can not be taken back. Deeds are done that can not be erased. Even simple i love yous and misunderstandings of the heart can turn the page in a relationship. You get what you put into if of yourself.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
4 Jun 10
There were the true relationship in the past - but now because of the selfish activities win which many are indulged is making the relationships too selfish.If they are not satisfied - well the relationship breaks.Everything has become very sensitive. I am always from all these and only think the moment one speaks is enough that is the last relationship,do not know the next moment he may be with us or no. This eases my mind and keeps me relaxed. I am adopted to this fashion of moving with people.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 10
Money is also factor.Spending too much,arguing about money is a strain to relationship also.Sometime spending to less time with wife also cannot will strain the relationship.House environment constant blickering with in laws and also interruption from outside making the house noise also can strain.after hard day work,man just want to lie back and relax facing the tv or sleep instead receive harsh nagging etc.